How do I get boy who hates me love me?(pllzzz read desprtion)

Theres this guy, that I've liked for like a year, and ever since hes moved here, hes hated me, and for some reason I love him, and last سال he prentended to shoot me in the side of the head, hes been dating this girl this is thier 2nd سال dating him, but I don't understand why do I love him! I've lost all my friends, because when he prentended to shoot me I've been in depression, and these last 2 weeks I've been having sucide thoughts HELP ME!!!!!!!!!
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PoweredByBacon said:
Okay, so the info آپ provided me with a hidden message. Heres my theory: He likes you, but doesnt want anyone to know, so hes dating someone else and pretending to shoot آپ so nobody thinks he does. First, has ever کہا he hates you?(to your face) Look, there is this guy that i thought hated me. i recently found him on facebook and he requested me so I کہا yes(who cares,I moved?)and he کہا he would do anything to see me again and he texted me that A LOT. But I want nothing to do with him, in 4th grade I stabbed him with a catus needle-and its still there. so, there is a great chance he likes you, and if not dont sweat it, as my sister would say..'Tnhere are other lions in the den' ;D
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Yes hes has told me in my face I just don't know why I like him thanx I voted آپ for best answer
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Chibi-Baka3 said:
There are things in this world that will be beyond our control. We can change its shape and bring it into another form, but it will never change what it really is inside.

There's a bit of confusion here, however; why is it that he hates you? Is it something that any of آپ have done to bring on those feelings? If nothing has been inflicted, then it must be some sort of psychological reason. I don't believe that someone will just hate another for no reason. آپ really need to talk to him about this, and explain to him that all of this is unnecessary and immature. آپ both need to take what's happening now and push it within the far reaches of the past.

Love is a confusing thing as well; I should bring this up since I have mentioned such feelings recently. This is something that we really don't expect, and can happen in the strangest ways and times. But آپ really must think to yourself: do آپ really love him, یا is this a mere crush? Think long and hard, and don't just immediately think that it can't be fake. I've never کہا so, but this is something that should be taken seriously (in my point of view). It's a fact that, when آپ have your first crush, آپ will do everything in your power to make it happen and keep it alive. You're going to feel reluctant when I say this, but maybe it's time that آپ set these feelings aside. آپ don't need to deal with what he's putting آپ through; it's کہا all the time, but آپ really do deserve better.

For that depression thing, I think that آپ should talk with a counselor/psychiatrist. If you're having suicidal thoughts, it should be done immediately, and I mean it. آپ don't want these things to grow مزید intense, because it brings nothing but bad luck. What good comes if آپ were to kill yourself یا hurt yourself in any way? Sit down and talk to your parents about this. Let them know that آپ can't sit around the way آپ are and let this take control. These feelings may be grabbing on tightly to the reigns, but it's not impossible to make them let go.
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he hates me cause I'm not مقبول and hes stuck-up and he shoves me in the hallway and he thinks I'm creepy
MMHenderson posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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How low of him to do so. Who cares if someone isn't popular? That's their problems, and people like that don't usually lead the best lives. They don't learn anything. You, on the other hand, WILL learn something; much faster and easier than him. Just forget about him, because I don't think he's worth your time.
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booyaferry said:
hi I think there is no reason for آپ to do anything insane یا reckless for this guy, I've read some other تبصرے that left to you,and I figured out that your feelings for him is just because he is cute یا something preventative. Deep inside آپ even hate yourself for liking him so much and why he doesn't fall for you.
Here is the thing, girl, keep yourself together and make it through the night,just don't care about what others think, just forget about him, and be yourself. Being yourself isn't easy, trust me, I've been there and it feels like nobody understands me, and they all think that I'm some kinda freak. But I'm not.

When آپ get through this period, آپ would figure out how stupid آپ were a few months پہلے and you'd be very lucky and happy to drop off the burden and let آپ be you.
We girls might fall for lots of boys in different time, but they are not the one so آپ don't have to suffer for them. It's a good thing for sure if he likes آپ just like آپ do for him but it's nothing serious if he doesn't. Take a deep breathe and اقدام on.
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