1:whatever آپ do don't call them a jerk(that would just make them get defensive) 2:stay as calm as آپ can 3:make sure آپ and your friend are alone when آپ tell them 4:give them a example.like آپ say" yesterday at lunch آپ کہا I was stupid and that hurt my feelings.It would be cool of آپ to not say mean things;can آپ do that for me?" that is just a example. If your friend is not understanding then I wouldn't hangout with that person much. I hope I helped:)
Like the person above کہا - don't call your friend a "jerk". It'll just start the conversation off badly.
Maybe آپ could just tell her how آپ feel سے طرف کی how she's been acting. Don't be too straightforward. Be calm. Try not to make her get offended سے طرف کی آپ telling why آپ think she's being mean to whoever she's being a jerk to. This probably didn't help. :\
I agree with the گزشتہ two, do not call him a jerk. آپ could ask if everything is ok? Give some examples of what he's done and maybe mention it's not like them. That way it opens communication. There's a small chance that something is going on with him that آپ don't know about. He may be taking it out on آپ without knowing about it. But even if that's not the case, it will let him know in a nice way that آپ don't like the way آپ are being treated. Communication is the key to get to the truth. Good luck,
