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Stuck in the middle... Please help me!

Ok so I have quite a few friends, but 2 very special ones. The only problem is that they dont like eachother and r very competitive. Over me I mean. Everyday they bribe me with stuff so I can like one them the most and they tug my arms so hard I could be ripped in half! I like them equally, I really do. I tried to explain this to them but they just acted as if they never heard me! They'll do ANYTHING to make me like one of them the most. Eventually, i got really sick of them and completely broke up with both of them in such a dramatic way. Now they r really sorry to me and have even tried to get along for my forgiveness! (Im just still not sure if they r REALLY دوستوں yet tho)... half of me wants to forgive them, half of me doesn't. So... All i wanna know is.. Should I forgive and forget یا just leave them for good?
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gossipgirlstar2 said:
I think that first of all آپ must learn if they are really دوستوں so as not to do this again to you...If آپ see that they are pretending and they are doing this only for آپ to forgive them and then start all over I think that آپ should leave them for good because آپ can't change two people tha dislike each other...But if they are really دوستوں and care about you, آپ should forgive them... I think that it wouldn't be right if they
were pretending that they are دوستوں just to bring آپ back and then start arguing again...

I hope I helped...

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well thank u ill see what happens on monday :)
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JustLikeSoul said:
I think آپ should wait for a time likehalf ماہ ,maybe it is too long,leave them alone and see their behaviors without آپ and make your decision after that :)
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ohk
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jedigal1990 said:
i personally think آپ should forgive them but let them know that what they did before is not going to be tolerated آپ can't make them be دوستوں and if their not thats still ok as long as they understand that they must respect that آپ like both of them equally and fighting with each other will not help any and will cause آپ not to want to be their friend but really it comes down to how much your friendship means to you. So forgive them but set limits to prevent yourself from the harm of the two of them fighting for آپ because it is not fair for them to make آپ chose between the two hope this helps and wish آپ the best of luck
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sounds good
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joebro521 said:
Well, what i think آپ should do is make sure that they are دوستوں سے طرف کی talking to them and making sure. So if they don't work it out then mabey آپ should just tell them that your not going to deal with it and just walk out and let them work it out before u get in the middle.
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babyjay said:
i think آپ should sit them down and tell them that if they where both true دوستوں that they would have never made آپ choose and that if it happens again it will hurt you. i dont think آپ should leave them because true دوستوں are really worth some thing special. hold on to them but explain how آپ feel to them. if آپ need مزید help let me know.
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