Should I just tell him? سہارا

So, I'm gonna try to explain my situation as briefly as possible. Please برداشت, ریچھ with me :L I'm really in need of advice.

So, typical issue: I'm heavily infatuated with my guy friend. I've liked him for a long time now, and I can honestly say I've NEVER liked a guy as much as I like him. We hang out twice per week at a lounge, doing homework and stuff like that, because we both have time gaps between classes. I absolutely love those days; being with him is always the highlight of my دن and I feel that we connect really well. I even went to his band's کنسرٹ with a mutual friend down in another city a few weeks ago. I feel like I flirt with him a lot, but he seems to be one of those guys who doesn't really pick up on it. (He is very intelligent, don't get me wrong).

I used to always scoff at the idea of actually telling him how I feel. However, lately I've been contemplating the idea of it. I love the friendship we've developed and I'd hate to ruin it. Also... I don't think he likes me in that way. I mean, I suppose it's possible, but it hasn't been made evident and I know it's highly likely he only thinks of me as a friend. But the thing is... I still just want to tell him. I hate keeping such a big secret from him and it makes me feel like I'm being dishonest in a way. Also, I'd hate to live with the regret of "what could've been" if I would've tried. There's no guarantee that telling him will ruin the friendship, but I still am afraid to take the risk.

There are about 5 weeks left of the semester, and I don't know if we'll both have break times between classes again اگلے semester. So that means these could be my last 5 weeks of seeing him regularly and my last opportunities to try and "take action." People say to just casually ask him to go do something like a movie یا a meal, but I feel that might be a little weird to ask that since we hang out regularly anyways, and he is also a very busy person in general.

What do آپ guys think? Should I just tell
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(sorry, it didn't post the rest): What do آپ guys think? Should I just tell him that I like him, being fully prepared for rejection but just taking the risk and not having to live with the regret of "what if"? یا is it not worth it to risk the friendship? And yes, I will give سہارا for answering...
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tanasia_11 said:
So from what i just read is آپ like this guy a lot.so i would say start off سے طرف کی giving him extra signs that آپ like him like ,then write a little note saying that آپ like him and he is special to آپ and put i just wanted آپ to know this and i was kinda scared to tell آپ at first then draw a دل on the note. I hope this helps in some way!!
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FLUFFYMUFFIN said:
step1:listen to this link Then walk up to him and say something nice and cute. Step2: listen to this link And then ask some سوالات about him like How old are آپ and what do like? Step3: Listen to this link
Then tell him sweet تبصرے like your so nice and I like they way آپ __. Step4:Listen to this link
Then Hang around him,talk to him start دکھانا love like no one else could! Spend time with him. Go to فلمیں with him. Step5:Listen to this link
Then share your sad and good moments in life.
Step6:Listen to this link
Get ready to tell him what آپ feel about him.
STEP 7: Listen to this link
Go to his locker, put a note in that tells him your feelings, *Tell him this in the note* Please accept my heart...because I cant put it back in.

And there آپ go it WILL help. Make sure آپ do 1 step a day. And POW your worries will go away and آپ too my jest be happy together.


And I know your wondering, why do i have to listen to these songs? Well each song has a different theme to them. It will motivate آپ to walk up to him without giving in یا backing down.
GLAD TO HELP آپ SEE YA ANS STAY AWESOME
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LGYCE said:
Yes. Just tell him. If he feels the same way, he will say so یا he will act very embarrassed and avoid answering. If he doesn't, then he will tell you. And if he actually stops being your friend because آپ told him آپ had feelings for him, than he is a jackass not worthy of ever having been your friend in the first place. It is highly improbable that he will overreact that seriously, though. Don't worry, just play it cool and tell him as it seems natural. Good luck!
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