after that i wold ask "are you joking?" "seriously?"

Rather coincidental, one of my friends from college seems slightly obsessed with me and I need advice on what to reply with when he finally says it.

Damn it, now I've been officially stalked by 4 people.....

i think this should be in the advice spot...
if its a serious " i am in love with you" and you dont feel the same way i think the best response is well: i am sorry but i dont feel the same way :)

this happened to me...

Tough break.... I assume it's awkward after they say it, right?

Adding "plus, you're not my type" wouldn't go astray either, lol.

;)

*hugs OhClip*

If I was attracted to her: I would smile and be happy.

If I wasn't attracted to her: I'd treat her the same way I'd treat a guy friend who did the same thing. Say I love her, but I'm not into her like that.

To me, the sex of the person confessing makes no difference to how I would react to it.

I don't see you like that. But I hope we can still be friends. (Well, its a line I've heard a lot but Cinders had the best answer.

I'm bi, and I'm actually on the opposite side, I'm in love with one of my friends, but I haven't told her yet.

Jojo, I think this will happen to me soon;)

Viets, this is my answer!!

I'd try to tell her in the most tactful way possible that I love her as a FRIEND but that I could never love a girl in an other way...

o.O lool^^

wat kind of pick is this

My hearts gotten broken 2 many times..

i may be strictly straight but i would try and help them find someone that isn't me, cuz im not into same sex relationships im not sayin theres anything wrong with it some of my friends are gay and bi and what not, i just would never go out with a girl id rather be with a guy anytime

I would be very shocked.

lol i'd probably run n tell her lovers to wait in line..bahahaha! lol jokes i dont think this would ever happen to me so...

This would be the story:

"You what?" (me)
"I like you more then a friend." (her)
"Ok verry ahh... odd now please let me be with my bf before he accuses you of trying to steal me." (me)
"Ok fine, bye!" (her)

But I asked my twin brother what he would say and this is what he would do:

"I love you too!" *hugs* (twin)
"You mean you really love me a lot?" (dude)
"A lot?" "Whoa back it up, you were sirious?" (twin)
"Yeah of course." (dude
"Ahh... well I gotta go, I have a date." (twin)
"Ok, bye:(" *cries*

My brother is wierd, I know!

and i would say it straight to her face!!! besides, i do have a "boyfriend"

lol it would lighten up the mood and if he dosent get it then i would go with "Sorry dude, but I don't swing THAT way!" lol

it wouldnt be a suprize coz all my guy friendz say that

Yeah, I'm 100% straight so, every thing would become very awkward.

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I'd just say "errrr..." go bright red and have nothing to say...

it would all be rather awkward

this would be all i could do

It doesn't matter to me what sex they are, just depends on the friend in general. First (just because I'm not used to these kind of situations), I would say "really?" -Not in a shocked, you-must-be-joking way or anything like that.

It just depends. I could end up finding that I feel the same.

I would think that it's ok.I don't care if some one I bisexual.I would treat them like a normal person.

Either that or WTF?!

Sexuality would not matter to me. If that person is serious, I can give a try for their sake, can't I?