Big rant coming up so BEWARE. I seriously just wanna say exactly what I'm feeling about our couple right now-as individuals....
Bonnie Bennett:
To me she's always been my favourite character out of Vampire Diaries! She's cute, warm, bubbly and has a friendly personality that shines through her beauty and she's also strong, strong because of her powers but she also has a natural strength that gives her determination and a need to make stand against evil.
She is also uncommonly selfless which is a good combination with her powers as she actually can make sacrifices as she doesn't die... (see episode 2x19) She was prepared to save the Salvatores in 1x22 even though she had every reason with witch/vampire history to despise them-she did it for Elena. Some TVD شائقین call her 'selfish' but how is that true? When has she ever been selfish? She'll die for Elena یا anyone she loves for that matter-or even people she doesn't! She'd die to save Mystic Falls but she hardly gets any credit for it because everyone is obsessed with Elena being the only selfless female on the show! But Bonnie hardly ever gets any thanks for it. She is a very under appreciated character! Damon never once thanked Bonnie for rescuing him and Stefan in 1x22 although he DID know about it as he tells Elena (a.k.a Katherine) before he kisses her "I don't do good Elena, it's not in me, that's for آپ and Stefan and...Bonnie although she has ever reason to hate me..."-this quote is interesting as it shows he knows she saved him and he also knows he's done wrong and he deserves to be hated سے طرف کی her but he still sounds regretful about it....sometimes I think Damon is ungrateful about Bonnie saving him but he does thank her in 1x22 and in 'Plan B' Season 2. He acknowledges she helps him. He knows but maybe unwilling to دکھائیں how much it means to him.....
I have always felt sorry for Bonnie although she isn't a character to be pitied. I was always confused at her lack of good storyline's (writers fault) and confused about her lack of boys in the love department. Her two best دوستوں who I think are سیکنڈ to her beauty and personality have always been with somebody. Elena has had Matt then Stefan then Damon loving her. Caroline has been with Damon, then had a kind of مثلث with Matt and Tyler which has lasted two seasons! It comes down the the major issue of both Elena and Caroline having مزید relationships which contributed to the longer and better storyline's! If Elena and Caroline aren't short of admirers then why is Bonnie?
Just to make things clear-I do not hate Elena-I like her with Bonnie, Caroline and Stefan but just not with Damon! She's different with him! The thing is and no offence to her what would she be with out her looks? Bonnie, Caroline and Elena are ALL beautiful girls but I think Bonnie and Caroline have bigger personalities. مزید interesting ones. Their personality shines through their beauty where as Elena although a nice enough girl (sometimes) is sort of stuck with a mid personality and her beauty sort of recommends her and seems to get her what she wants....
And onto the storyline issue! Where is Bonnie's house? Her father? Her whole family for that matter!! Where is her life?!!! We've seen Caroline and Elena's houses/rooms! They've had sleepovers at both except for Bonnie's!!! Why? Christ alone knows! Caroline's Dad hasn't been seen either but at least her mum is in it quite a good deal and a permanent residence of M.F. I wouldn't be surprised if Bonnie's father were a figment of the town's imagination if they don't دکھائیں him soon!!! It's ridiculous how they just use Bonnie for spells and don't دکھائیں HER as a person. In all of two seasons and not دکھانا Bonnie having some "me time" is so so unfair! Katerina Graham has almost never had any screen time alone. Elena is constantly having shots of her looking worried on her own یا lying in bed. Caroline is in her بستر lying awake یا in her room. Bonnie? Not a chance! I just don't get it! Why not? Why don't the writers put it in?!
Bonnie's brief storyline high when it concentrated on something other than her spells was Bonnie's disastrous first 'love interest' in season 1-as Ben turned out to be a vampire who only wanted her to use her to open the tomb and then of blue-'along came' Jeremy-well 'along came' they've known each other their WHOLE life but not once considered each other as boyfriend/girlfriend material and after being left alone together for a few episodes they fancied each other and سے طرف کی the end of the season loved each other which is highly unrealistic to me as the writers didn't even bother to build up the rather random relationship! It was as if they both had been single for too long and wanted to pair them off-
BUT I do think Jeremy will be part of Bonnie's growing up as he is her first proper boyfriend. What with knowing she's a Witch and how to control her powers and knowing about vampires and werewolves, I think Bonnie wanted a steadiness in her life and Jeremy too so they both opted for someone they knew and trusted rather than some newcomer and although there wasn't a particular spark between them I think they both felt محفوظ together and craved some company! I do not hate their on screen time as I like (love Bonnie) both as individuals, they're cute but there isn't much there to make them timeless romantics as Bonnie first rejected him then decided to go for him a few episodes later which was slightly weird and not very romantic at all! Bonnie needs someone like Damon...not someone 'LIKE' Damon-she needs Damon Salvatore!!!!
Damon Salvatore:
Although I know Bonnie a lot less (in terms of background) I'm finding it alot harder to write this bit about Damon....Damon has always been a complicated character-not knowing where he belongs یا where his loyalties lie-it's fair to say he's had a tough time. Mostly because of his attitude in my opinion not others apart Kath!!!
He learnt to compete with his brother at a young age as he competed against him for Katherine's love. Katherine represents a big part of Damon-even now as he and she still lives on! She was his first love and someone whom he admired and was left wanting more....always. Her wild and carefree lifestyle drew him in and created an obsession which lasted for over a century. So when Kat returns in season 2 and Damon learns after 100+ years of obsessing that she always loved Stefan and NOT him he fell hard and of course felt anger towards his brother as he now knows has two 'Katherine/Elena lookers' loving him!
As Damon says to Stefan "She was supposed to choose me Stefan-just me" which shows his want of attention and wanting someone to him self as he never had Katherine to himself but always had to 'share' her so why now does he want someone he can never have to him self? He knows deep down that Elena can never ever give him all her love as a couple should do. He knows she loves Stefan but still he keeps hoping because he wants to win against Stefan. He wants to have the 'Kinder Katherine'-the improved version of a girl he loved alot مزید than this new one....that his brother also wants. He says he can't be 'selfish' with her but words are meaningless unless actions back it up-he is and has been selfish with her and always will be! Elena is the hot مقبول girl, his brother's 'compassionate' girlfriend and he looks up to her like the 'girl he can never have'. It's a mission that he regards as 'If I fail I die' which is stupid! He wants to win but his measures are becoming مزید desperate each time. Snapping her bother's neck when he's rejected and then feeding her blood to ensure she stays so he doesn't lose his "mission".
We all know that he gets Katherine and Elena mixed up as in 2x22 he was flitting in and out of the past and present. He also failed to recognise Katherine when she first is seen and kisses Damon (1x22) where as Stefan realises it's Katherine when he hugs her in 2x01! Stefan knows the difference, he can define Elena as someone who is not Katherine. He fell in love with Elena where as Damon fell in love with the idea of being in love! He wants to believe he's in love and that Elena is changing him so he can be a better guy! He went to Elena though AFTER being rejected سے طرف کی Katherine which just shows she is the سیکنڈ choice. Elena is Damon's سیکنڈ choice. If Katherine had loved Damon from the start when she came back in Season 2 would he believe himself in love with Elena know? Of course not!
Although Damon came across as a confident (and most of the time arrogant) amusing vampire in Season 1 he slowly deteriorated in personality as he got consumed with the idea he wasn't the right type of person and began to feel insecure and wanted to change 'for Elena' but is his change for the better? Not really-he still walks all over her killing her bro and feeding her blood while he's become a mopey and boring as hell guy! Where he was once the life of the party he is now a shadow of his former self! He's still a vampire. He kills less humans because of his time with Stefan and getting to know him and Mystic Falls again but he's becoming مزید and مزید selfish now he's obsessed with Elena. He's living for her which is awful! He is his Season 1 self with Bonnie minus killing anyone. He is Season 2 with Elena and still killing people. Bonnie challenges him to be a better person. She expects good NORMAL behaviour and no less and Damon complies because he knows it but because he knows Elena will forgive him he does what he wants with her! They both are on uneven ground. Elena forgiving his sins then him doing them again and hating him self. He did those terrible things because of her and I refuse to believe he would "gladly" let Bonnie die-words mean mostly nothing on TVD as characters will declare something then do the opposite! Elena's constant "I love آپ Stefan"s then she kisses Damon? Words like Damon's mean nothing till he proves them and I know he wouldn't be happy to see her die as he wasn't when she did in-"The Last Dance" and he knew she would come back!
Bonnie and Damon-united!
Bonnie and Damon's relationship has always been an interesting one. They have been renowned for 'hating' each other but do they really? یا is it just a battle of prides? And who's willing to fall in love first. Ian's words "It's that thing when آپ hate someone then آپ fall for them" Bonnie does not stand for Damon's 'no rules, no consequences lifestyle' where as Elena will forgive and forgive which is only giving her مہر of approval about those things. Bonnie shows Damon she doesn't like that stuff and he knows it and he can change as Bonnie believes he can and I quote-"Things have to change-Damon has to change!!!" to Stefan in 1x22. She would just get rid of him if she literally thought he was a lost case! She knows what he can be and forces it out of him سے طرف کی making him act like a responsible adult!But that doesn't mean he's not fun with her!
Damon forces himself onto Elena-he FORCES himself with no shame to declare his love, to beg for it. But is that what love is really like? When you're in love-your worried, insecure that they don't feel the same way and that's how I imagine him to be like with Bonnie when he finally learns to love her. مزید human. His declaration of love to Elena is just vampire arrogance which isn't humanity!!!! Some anti-Bamon شائقین say "If he's changing for Elena now and finding it hard-imagine how hard it will be to change for Bonnie" He's making it hard-harder than it should be! Stop killing and be your fun natural self not stop killing and be mopey!!! But the way he is with Bonnie now is fine. He's Damon. Fun, slightly arrogant, flirty and real! He یا Bonnie don't need to change for each other because although Bonnie hates killing innocent people he doesn't do that any مزید AND he definitely would never do that around her! If he loved her and acted like that with HER then that's how it ought to be. He doesn't need to change because his attitude with her is becoming مزید and مزید acceptable to her as she seems to find him quite amenable in the Last Dance....he also seems drawn to her which I find incredibly cute. It's all the little things that counts. As they went to save Jenna, Elena and Stefan from Klaus he absently touched as he walked out after her. In the 'Last Dance' when he vampire ran at her in the Salvatore House-what was he going to do! He wouldn't hurt her of course but another reason to go close I think. He's wanted to dance with her twice now and has done-he didn't really need to but still he did. He left Elena to go and dance with her. It was as if he wanted to give her a good time before she killed herself for Elena-he caressed her cheek, closed her eyes and looked close to tears when she was dead and made sure Jeremy woke up with her-he didn't need to but as I کہا he feels for her and I know they have a connection which is a much deeper and subtler one than the 'on the surface dull-ena'. He is naturally drawn to this complicated and feisty witch where as he was drawn to Elena because she looks like Katherine! It doesn't take a genius to work out which is مزید real!
Thanks for reading!
Bonnie Bennett:
To me she's always been my favourite character out of Vampire Diaries! She's cute, warm, bubbly and has a friendly personality that shines through her beauty and she's also strong, strong because of her powers but she also has a natural strength that gives her determination and a need to make stand against evil.
She is also uncommonly selfless which is a good combination with her powers as she actually can make sacrifices as she doesn't die... (see episode 2x19) She was prepared to save the Salvatores in 1x22 even though she had every reason with witch/vampire history to despise them-she did it for Elena. Some TVD شائقین call her 'selfish' but how is that true? When has she ever been selfish? She'll die for Elena یا anyone she loves for that matter-or even people she doesn't! She'd die to save Mystic Falls but she hardly gets any credit for it because everyone is obsessed with Elena being the only selfless female on the show! But Bonnie hardly ever gets any thanks for it. She is a very under appreciated character! Damon never once thanked Bonnie for rescuing him and Stefan in 1x22 although he DID know about it as he tells Elena (a.k.a Katherine) before he kisses her "I don't do good Elena, it's not in me, that's for آپ and Stefan and...Bonnie although she has ever reason to hate me..."-this quote is interesting as it shows he knows she saved him and he also knows he's done wrong and he deserves to be hated سے طرف کی her but he still sounds regretful about it....sometimes I think Damon is ungrateful about Bonnie saving him but he does thank her in 1x22 and in 'Plan B' Season 2. He acknowledges she helps him. He knows but maybe unwilling to دکھائیں how much it means to him.....
I have always felt sorry for Bonnie although she isn't a character to be pitied. I was always confused at her lack of good storyline's (writers fault) and confused about her lack of boys in the love department. Her two best دوستوں who I think are سیکنڈ to her beauty and personality have always been with somebody. Elena has had Matt then Stefan then Damon loving her. Caroline has been with Damon, then had a kind of مثلث with Matt and Tyler which has lasted two seasons! It comes down the the major issue of both Elena and Caroline having مزید relationships which contributed to the longer and better storyline's! If Elena and Caroline aren't short of admirers then why is Bonnie?
Just to make things clear-I do not hate Elena-I like her with Bonnie, Caroline and Stefan but just not with Damon! She's different with him! The thing is and no offence to her what would she be with out her looks? Bonnie, Caroline and Elena are ALL beautiful girls but I think Bonnie and Caroline have bigger personalities. مزید interesting ones. Their personality shines through their beauty where as Elena although a nice enough girl (sometimes) is sort of stuck with a mid personality and her beauty sort of recommends her and seems to get her what she wants....
And onto the storyline issue! Where is Bonnie's house? Her father? Her whole family for that matter!! Where is her life?!!! We've seen Caroline and Elena's houses/rooms! They've had sleepovers at both except for Bonnie's!!! Why? Christ alone knows! Caroline's Dad hasn't been seen either but at least her mum is in it quite a good deal and a permanent residence of M.F. I wouldn't be surprised if Bonnie's father were a figment of the town's imagination if they don't دکھائیں him soon!!! It's ridiculous how they just use Bonnie for spells and don't دکھائیں HER as a person. In all of two seasons and not دکھانا Bonnie having some "me time" is so so unfair! Katerina Graham has almost never had any screen time alone. Elena is constantly having shots of her looking worried on her own یا lying in bed. Caroline is in her بستر lying awake یا in her room. Bonnie? Not a chance! I just don't get it! Why not? Why don't the writers put it in?!
Bonnie's brief storyline high when it concentrated on something other than her spells was Bonnie's disastrous first 'love interest' in season 1-as Ben turned out to be a vampire who only wanted her to use her to open the tomb and then of blue-'along came' Jeremy-well 'along came' they've known each other their WHOLE life but not once considered each other as boyfriend/girlfriend material and after being left alone together for a few episodes they fancied each other and سے طرف کی the end of the season loved each other which is highly unrealistic to me as the writers didn't even bother to build up the rather random relationship! It was as if they both had been single for too long and wanted to pair them off-
BUT I do think Jeremy will be part of Bonnie's growing up as he is her first proper boyfriend. What with knowing she's a Witch and how to control her powers and knowing about vampires and werewolves, I think Bonnie wanted a steadiness in her life and Jeremy too so they both opted for someone they knew and trusted rather than some newcomer and although there wasn't a particular spark between them I think they both felt محفوظ together and craved some company! I do not hate their on screen time as I like (love Bonnie) both as individuals, they're cute but there isn't much there to make them timeless romantics as Bonnie first rejected him then decided to go for him a few episodes later which was slightly weird and not very romantic at all! Bonnie needs someone like Damon...not someone 'LIKE' Damon-she needs Damon Salvatore!!!!
Damon Salvatore:
Although I know Bonnie a lot less (in terms of background) I'm finding it alot harder to write this bit about Damon....Damon has always been a complicated character-not knowing where he belongs یا where his loyalties lie-it's fair to say he's had a tough time. Mostly because of his attitude in my opinion not others apart Kath!!!
He learnt to compete with his brother at a young age as he competed against him for Katherine's love. Katherine represents a big part of Damon-even now as he and she still lives on! She was his first love and someone whom he admired and was left wanting more....always. Her wild and carefree lifestyle drew him in and created an obsession which lasted for over a century. So when Kat returns in season 2 and Damon learns after 100+ years of obsessing that she always loved Stefan and NOT him he fell hard and of course felt anger towards his brother as he now knows has two 'Katherine/Elena lookers' loving him!
As Damon says to Stefan "She was supposed to choose me Stefan-just me" which shows his want of attention and wanting someone to him self as he never had Katherine to himself but always had to 'share' her so why now does he want someone he can never have to him self? He knows deep down that Elena can never ever give him all her love as a couple should do. He knows she loves Stefan but still he keeps hoping because he wants to win against Stefan. He wants to have the 'Kinder Katherine'-the improved version of a girl he loved alot مزید than this new one....that his brother also wants. He says he can't be 'selfish' with her but words are meaningless unless actions back it up-he is and has been selfish with her and always will be! Elena is the hot مقبول girl, his brother's 'compassionate' girlfriend and he looks up to her like the 'girl he can never have'. It's a mission that he regards as 'If I fail I die' which is stupid! He wants to win but his measures are becoming مزید desperate each time. Snapping her bother's neck when he's rejected and then feeding her blood to ensure she stays so he doesn't lose his "mission".
We all know that he gets Katherine and Elena mixed up as in 2x22 he was flitting in and out of the past and present. He also failed to recognise Katherine when she first is seen and kisses Damon (1x22) where as Stefan realises it's Katherine when he hugs her in 2x01! Stefan knows the difference, he can define Elena as someone who is not Katherine. He fell in love with Elena where as Damon fell in love with the idea of being in love! He wants to believe he's in love and that Elena is changing him so he can be a better guy! He went to Elena though AFTER being rejected سے طرف کی Katherine which just shows she is the سیکنڈ choice. Elena is Damon's سیکنڈ choice. If Katherine had loved Damon from the start when she came back in Season 2 would he believe himself in love with Elena know? Of course not!
Although Damon came across as a confident (and most of the time arrogant) amusing vampire in Season 1 he slowly deteriorated in personality as he got consumed with the idea he wasn't the right type of person and began to feel insecure and wanted to change 'for Elena' but is his change for the better? Not really-he still walks all over her killing her bro and feeding her blood while he's become a mopey and boring as hell guy! Where he was once the life of the party he is now a shadow of his former self! He's still a vampire. He kills less humans because of his time with Stefan and getting to know him and Mystic Falls again but he's becoming مزید and مزید selfish now he's obsessed with Elena. He's living for her which is awful! He is his Season 1 self with Bonnie minus killing anyone. He is Season 2 with Elena and still killing people. Bonnie challenges him to be a better person. She expects good NORMAL behaviour and no less and Damon complies because he knows it but because he knows Elena will forgive him he does what he wants with her! They both are on uneven ground. Elena forgiving his sins then him doing them again and hating him self. He did those terrible things because of her and I refuse to believe he would "gladly" let Bonnie die-words mean mostly nothing on TVD as characters will declare something then do the opposite! Elena's constant "I love آپ Stefan"s then she kisses Damon? Words like Damon's mean nothing till he proves them and I know he wouldn't be happy to see her die as he wasn't when she did in-"The Last Dance" and he knew she would come back!
Bonnie and Damon-united!
Bonnie and Damon's relationship has always been an interesting one. They have been renowned for 'hating' each other but do they really? یا is it just a battle of prides? And who's willing to fall in love first. Ian's words "It's that thing when آپ hate someone then آپ fall for them" Bonnie does not stand for Damon's 'no rules, no consequences lifestyle' where as Elena will forgive and forgive which is only giving her مہر of approval about those things. Bonnie shows Damon she doesn't like that stuff and he knows it and he can change as Bonnie believes he can and I quote-"Things have to change-Damon has to change!!!" to Stefan in 1x22. She would just get rid of him if she literally thought he was a lost case! She knows what he can be and forces it out of him سے طرف کی making him act like a responsible adult!But that doesn't mean he's not fun with her!
Damon forces himself onto Elena-he FORCES himself with no shame to declare his love, to beg for it. But is that what love is really like? When you're in love-your worried, insecure that they don't feel the same way and that's how I imagine him to be like with Bonnie when he finally learns to love her. مزید human. His declaration of love to Elena is just vampire arrogance which isn't humanity!!!! Some anti-Bamon شائقین say "If he's changing for Elena now and finding it hard-imagine how hard it will be to change for Bonnie" He's making it hard-harder than it should be! Stop killing and be your fun natural self not stop killing and be mopey!!! But the way he is with Bonnie now is fine. He's Damon. Fun, slightly arrogant, flirty and real! He یا Bonnie don't need to change for each other because although Bonnie hates killing innocent people he doesn't do that any مزید AND he definitely would never do that around her! If he loved her and acted like that with HER then that's how it ought to be. He doesn't need to change because his attitude with her is becoming مزید and مزید acceptable to her as she seems to find him quite amenable in the Last Dance....he also seems drawn to her which I find incredibly cute. It's all the little things that counts. As they went to save Jenna, Elena and Stefan from Klaus he absently touched as he walked out after her. In the 'Last Dance' when he vampire ran at her in the Salvatore House-what was he going to do! He wouldn't hurt her of course but another reason to go close I think. He's wanted to dance with her twice now and has done-he didn't really need to but still he did. He left Elena to go and dance with her. It was as if he wanted to give her a good time before she killed herself for Elena-he caressed her cheek, closed her eyes and looked close to tears when she was dead and made sure Jeremy woke up with her-he didn't need to but as I کہا he feels for her and I know they have a connection which is a much deeper and subtler one than the 'on the surface dull-ena'. He is naturally drawn to this complicated and feisty witch where as he was drawn to Elena because she looks like Katherine! It doesn't take a genius to work out which is مزید real!
Thanks for reading!