since the beginning of this دکھائیں till now I've always thought that the writers have been incrediblely unfair when it came to the story of Stefan and Elena , they've دیا them a terrible story with no build up, poor moments with absolutely no spark یا depth whereas Damon and Elena always get this kind of heartbreaking , emotional scenes... and this دکھائیں was supposed to be about a love مثلث !!! so is this a misshap from the writers یا is it exactly what they want us to think ...I highly dought that the writers are incapable of writing stelena a proper story ,because they've done a very great job with delena and other couples in the show,like(klaus and Caroline ) they've دیا them epic moments in such a short time and absolutely out of nowhere , they made most of شائقین root for them overnight with a couple of scenes written properly ....in conclusion these writers are so talented they can make us root for Tyler and klaus!! If they wanted to ..... So why not with Stefan and Elena if they're supposed to be the "epic " love story of the دکھائیں -unless they're not and that's what the writers want us to see ... this is why I made a comparison between the way the writers have written both stelena and delena ... first: stelena: first of all their " epic"meeting :they meet at the men's bathroom !!!! ok I don't even have to تبصرہ on that , let's get to their first kiss which happened on the سیکنڈ episode which was the سیکنڈ دن the met -I guess Elena never heard of the saying " never kiss a boy on the first تاریخ ...." moving آگے to the first time they had sex which happened on the tenth episode which is probably two weeks after they first met -way to go Elena آپ lasted two weeks !!!! and speaking of the love scene-what was that ??!! Stefan spent the whole scene pushing her away , unable to resist the urge to drink her blood ( and ripping her head off) and the director must have told them " if آپ دکھائیں any sign of passion آپ will be fired " and not to mention the song choice "cut " ..really !! no wonder I felt like they were about to commit suicide rather than make love ... and of course Elena then finds out accidently that she looks exactly like Katherine -way to go Stefan sleep with the girl before آپ tell her why آپ "had" to know her...this brings me to the trust issue ;Stefan and Elena suffer from this issue greatly ....I remember the scene where I officially hated Stefan ( 2x01) where Stefan goes behind her back , force-feeds her father his blood and threatens to turn him into a vampire "the thing he hates most " so he can watch him hate himself !!! then he goes back to Elena , acts all inoscent , he even lies about what he did right to her face .... other than this there isn't actually anything compelling about them یا their scenes .in fact we've never seen an " I love آپ Elena " from Stefan , rather than the random everyday ones ... and this makes me wonder (is Stefan really uncapable of saying یا doing romantic things ) I don't think so .. Think of all the flashbacks of him and katherine ..the way he tells her he loves her " I look at آپ and I see an angel , I touch your skin and my whole body ignites , I kiss your lips and I know I'm falling in love .... see how he talks to Katherine , how he looks at her , how he was مزید than thrilled to escort her to the founders دن party -with Elena he hates to dance..and also the love scene between him and Katherine in the flashback , it was so full of passion (Stefan :I will love آپ forever. Katherine : forever is a very long time .stefan: not long enough) . see Stefan CAN be passionate and loving -why not with Elena ? does he love her ? if so how and when ? because she's the opposite of Katherine ! Caroline is the opposite of Katherine ,Bonnie too ... so many girls are the opposite of Katherine .. what made him love Elena ? -she's not exactly the opposite of Katherine they have a lot مزید in common than their looks- the writers have never explained why he loves Elena (unless they've already did "when Katherine told Stefan that he came back to mystic falls to fall in love with her all over again " ) before I end things about stelena there's still something I really hate about them it's that they always kiss یا have sex in completely un appropriate times ... Like in 2x10 ( Stefan was locked in the tomp with katherine so Elena makes a deal with elijah in order to get him out of the tomp... after Elijah gets him out Stefan goes to Elena's room and they immediately start having sex with out even talking about what kind of a deal Elena made with an original evil vampire ... I mean come on what was that -I know that spending the دن with a stripping Katherine can drive آپ crazy - but dude atleast be a little considerate and ask her how the hell she got آپ out of that tomp before آپ unlock her bra !!! ). سیکنڈ : delena : I want to start with the miss mystic falls dance when it all started to me ... Damon and Elena share an amazing and very important dance , a dance that the writers have made very clear that it very much represents their relationship , first it was an unplanned dance " it was just meant to be " , it's a "no touching dance " that is centered around the eyes and the anticipation of the " almost touch" and that's exactly what Damon and Elena have been doing for almost three seasons(fighting the temptation to give into the "touch") .....the first time Damon tells Elena he loves her is the most heartbreaking , compelling love confession I've ever seen in tv (I just have to say It once , آپ just need to hear it ) it was so emotional It brought me into tears ( not just me , my sister and my mom too) ... the fact that he loves her so much that he's willing to let her go because he thinks he doesn't deserve her ... he couldn't even tell her that he loves her with out making her forget ,he thinks that those three little words are the most selfish thing he's ever کہا in his life .... just speaking about this scene makes me emotional so I'll skip to the اگلے one ... Their first kiss : on the first episode of season two Elena begins the season saying that she would never kiss Damon ..on the season finale Elena is lying اگلے to him ,holding him in her arms ,devastated that this might be the last time she ever sees him ...and on his final breaths he tells her that he knows she loves Stefan and that it will always be Stefan but she should know that he loves her too ... They share a very intense and emotional scene that ends with her applying a gentle kiss on his lips .... (I like آپ now,just the way آپ are) .... their first meeting : well their meetings are so special that the writers made them meet twice ..first (their second/first meeting ) Damon sneaks up behind her ,they start talking and before she leaves Damon kisses her hand ... Their actual first meeting : which is revealed three seasons later , right after Elena tells him that she might have chosen him if only they had met first .... which they did ... this is what makes it مزید heartbreaking that he met her first , they talked and it was epic ,she flirted with him , he told her to get everything she wanted to get from life but then he compels her to forget because unlike Stefan he wouldn't drag her into his life just because she looks exactly like Katherine (he wasn't looking for a replacement ) .... moving آگے to their first love scene which of course happened on the دن of miss mystic falls competition , and of course it starts with a dance only this time they are allowed to " touch" ... It was a very passionate scene that focused on the eyes ,the hands and the lips "almost like their dances" ,with an excellent choice of موسیقی ,lighting and of course " fire" to represent the آگ کے, آگ that's been burning inside of them for so long until it was finally their time to give into the "touch" .... Elena's choice : right after Elena choses Stefan she says she was ready to die .... right after Elena choses Damon she fights for her life , she was willing to do anything " losing the cure" for the chance of staying alive ... and Elena always believed that آپ should be with person who makes آپ feel glad to be alive , if Stefan was that person why was she ready to die right after choosing him .... now after all of this if the writers wanted stelena to be the "couple "of the story , why didn't they ? -unless they don't .... this explains why most people want Damon and Elena to be together ,because that's what the story is telling ....