none, maybe the middle point of similar and diferent

Some commonalities help, but being polar opposites sets one up for disaster in most cases, because people have a harder time finding the middle ground anywhere.

But that's why we never think DP relationships are dating guides for romances. Ever.

Neither. I'd rather marry my boyfriend who has some similarities and some differences than I do. I feel like we are closer to being different in many aspects than similar though so I picked this one.

I don't know, I can see pros and cons to each.

Similar in many aspects but I know I can be a pessimist and I want someone with good energy to balance me out

A combination of both would be preferable, but if I were to marry someone just like me, I'm afraid it would get too boring.

Somewhere in the middle..

Yeah somewhere in between, but I'm leaning towards this.

yeah, definitely enough in common so we don't fight much but complement each other so we make it interesting, like Aurora and Phillip.

I don't know. I'd like a companion who "compliments" my personality. Someone who brings out my better traits and helps work on my weaknesses. Well, I don't plan on getting married anyway.

I'd rather date someone who is perfect for me, but not like me. The relationship might be boring.

since m married, i can safely say that marrying a person who's more like you will understand when you are at your worst also. Polar opposites have the sizzle of romance, but eventually in marriage, it does fade away. Understanding and respect will only come when you have common moral grounds.