It is like all of your work being destroyed and all in vain, and the humilation.

All really, but hers the most.

All, but I guess being told you can't pursue your hopes and dreams and that you were lied to all your life is relatable to me, so I get why she is upset.

Actually I thought about this A LOT. Cinderella or Snow White, I still can't get why Aurora was crying that much. Cinderella's beautiful dress is torn up by her ugly stepsisters. That is very bad. But at least Cindy didn't get lost anywhere like Snowy.

This is over-analysis, but in a way, it kind of seems that most people will relate to every one of these at different stages in their lives.
Snow White’s is being lost and not knowing what to do (childhood), Aurora’s is having responsibility thrust on you and not having as much choice as you’d like (young adulthood/teen), and Cinderella’s is holding back so much pain for so long and having the final straw break you (adulthood.)

Haha obviously I thought about this one too much. Anyway, at this stage in my life, I feel Cinderella’s.