I’ve received a lot of messages about troubles with love, the gender one identifies as…
Things such as, “I hate myself as a girl” and “is it wrong to fall in love with someone of the same gender” …
I have a feeling that I’ve talked about this before, but first of all, I want to say that I don’t have that sort of prejudice at all. I guess آپ could say that I feel the same way آپ do. There’s nothing wrong with falling in love with someone.
It’s sad that there are people who look upon this issue with a prejudiced view یا a hateful view, just as there’s also a lot of people who judge others based on their appearance, but I think that there’s nothing that can be done about it.
They say “I understand” with their mouths, but they don’t really mean it. So, آپ end up feeling isolated سے طرف کی different things around you.
Then, there’s the people who want to become men, but their parents don’t understand and refuse to accept it.
“You were born as a woman.” is a really irrational thing to say, isn’t it.
It’s depressing that they don’t understand your nature, your دل and body…
It’s not your fault.
There’s no reason to blame yourself. It’s no one else’s fault, either.
Despite that, I think that it’s especially difficult to have this sort of conflict with your parents…
I believe that someday, they’ll surely accept آپ for who آپ are, so don’t change.
آپ should pay no attention to those around آپ and take pride in who آپ are. But if آپ let yourself be affected سے طرف کی what they say, then that pain is already waiting within the depths of your heart. Still, there’s no need whatsoever to be humble.
Even if آپ get all of those feelings out of آپ that are so painful it’s hard to breathe, it won’t go well.
The pain of rejection, the fact that آپ can’t come to love yourself for who آپ are, and the feeling of hurting yourself… I understand completely.
Nevertheless, there’s no need for آپ to hurt yourself.
Because we’re all human, we have good points and bad points, so it’s only natural, but آپ can’t change for anyone because آپ only have this one existence.
Today, there was an incident at an unexpected place where I felt the kindness of people.
Although I have nothing but a cold image of strangers, feeling that kindness at an unexpected time warmed my heart.
It’ll be okay… we can get through this together.
Things such as, “I hate myself as a girl” and “is it wrong to fall in love with someone of the same gender” …
I have a feeling that I’ve talked about this before, but first of all, I want to say that I don’t have that sort of prejudice at all. I guess آپ could say that I feel the same way آپ do. There’s nothing wrong with falling in love with someone.
It’s sad that there are people who look upon this issue with a prejudiced view یا a hateful view, just as there’s also a lot of people who judge others based on their appearance, but I think that there’s nothing that can be done about it.
They say “I understand” with their mouths, but they don’t really mean it. So, آپ end up feeling isolated سے طرف کی different things around you.
Then, there’s the people who want to become men, but their parents don’t understand and refuse to accept it.
“You were born as a woman.” is a really irrational thing to say, isn’t it.
It’s depressing that they don’t understand your nature, your دل and body…
It’s not your fault.
There’s no reason to blame yourself. It’s no one else’s fault, either.
Despite that, I think that it’s especially difficult to have this sort of conflict with your parents…
I believe that someday, they’ll surely accept آپ for who آپ are, so don’t change.
آپ should pay no attention to those around آپ and take pride in who آپ are. But if آپ let yourself be affected سے طرف کی what they say, then that pain is already waiting within the depths of your heart. Still, there’s no need whatsoever to be humble.
Even if آپ get all of those feelings out of آپ that are so painful it’s hard to breathe, it won’t go well.
The pain of rejection, the fact that آپ can’t come to love yourself for who آپ are, and the feeling of hurting yourself… I understand completely.
Nevertheless, there’s no need for آپ to hurt yourself.
Because we’re all human, we have good points and bad points, so it’s only natural, but آپ can’t change for anyone because آپ only have this one existence.
Today, there was an incident at an unexpected place where I felt the kindness of people.
Although I have nothing but a cold image of strangers, feeling that kindness at an unexpected time warmed my heart.
It’ll be okay… we can get through this together.
