2.Gauge your date’s reaction to you. You'll need to do this quickly as the goodbye-kiss window doesn’t stay open for long. If you’re walking your تاریخ ہوم and they don’t let آپ get that close to the door, take this physical distancing as a sign that a goodnight kiss isn't such a great idea. If (s)he is eager to get the keys in the door, this too is a bad sign. Other red lights can include clamped lips یا a stubborn refusal to make eye contact. However, there’s a good chance that the signs won’t be as obvious as this. To give yourself the advantage in the moment, learn how to read body language so that آپ can act fast and avoid any mishaps. Only make a اقدام if آپ feel all is right.
3.Make a “moment.” Remember that in every goodnight kiss scenario, you've got a limited window of opportunity to make your move. Create an "awkward pause" in the conversation. Studies دکھائیں that people are uncomfortable with gaps of silence in conversation, so fill it with a smile and get ready to اقدام in for a kiss.
4.Maintain eye contact. If your تاریخ steadily returns your gaze, consider it an invitation to smooch. If (s)he tries to maintain eye contact but breaks it before anything can happen, chalk it up to nervousness and try to create another “moment” if it isn’t too late.
5.Move in for the kiss. Keep it simple, especially if this is your first kiss with your date. This means no tongue یا special moves; just turn your head slightly to the side, lean in slowly, and rock his یا her world! آپ can place your hand on the small of their neck if آپ wish.
If your تاریخ is enthusiastic, آپ may be able to turn the simple smooch into a longer, مزید involved kiss. However, only do this if آپ feel very confident about the cues you’re being given; when in doubt, err on the side of kissing too little, as it’s better to leave them wanting مزید than to make them regret kissing آپ in the first place.
If آپ get the dreaded cheek turn, briefly apologize, laugh it off, and leave with your dignity intact.
6.Repeat if desired, یا if آپ feel your تاریخ getting into it. This may lead to being invited inside, but don't count on it
Tips
-If it seems like your تاریخ is waiting for a while to go inside, kiss her. She wants آپ to.
-If آپ feel your تاریخ trying to اقدام away یا say "No," don’t press the issue. Simply ask if (s)he's okay; if the answer is "nothing" یا your تاریخ has to think about it, just say goodnight, as your تاریخ probably isn’t comfortable enough to admit it’s too soon to kiss. Never force a goodnight kiss on someone.
-Add تبصرے such as "Tonight was amazing" یا "I hope we can do this again sometime" (and دکھائیں her that آپ mean it) to make him/her feel special.
-When you're walking away, give a little glance back - chances are she'll be watching آپ go.
-If آپ want to be extra cute آپ could even kiss her hand یا forehead, but be wary of the forehead kiss as some girls find it patronizing یا granddad-like.
Warning
-If your تاریخ is facing the other way, do not grab his یا her head and turn it to face آپ for the kiss. This is pushy and unromantic.
-Be wary of giving a goodnight (or first) kiss in front of friends, whether they’re yours یا your date’s; this is meant to be a sweet and private moment, so keep it as exclusive as possible.
-Don't just go around kissing anyone, anytime! آپ may be charged with sexual assault if آپ اقدام too aggressively.
