Lately on Fanpop, I've been noticing a lot of people wondering if they are gay یا bisexual, in particular. They ask if certain behaviors یا feelings they have make them gay یا bi.
But really, asking other people to tell آپ whether یا not آپ are gay یا straight is nearly impossible. They can't be inside your head and go through what آپ do every day. It's up to آپ to figure that out on your own!
If that leaves آپ feeling overwhelmed, don't panic! Sexuality is an exciting and often confusing journey, only to be uncovered سے طرف کی you! If I've learned anything from going through years feeling straight, gay, bi, and even asexual it's this:
1. You cannot choose who آپ are. Don't let anyone convince آپ that آپ should change.
2. Your sexual orientation can change over time, but this is never under your control.
3. Don't let anyone put a label on آپ and tell آپ who آپ are! Only آپ know how آپ feel!
4. Don't feel obligated to pick a side, whether straight, gay, bisexual, یا anything else.
5. Your sexual orientation is often not clear. If it were, most people would be able to say without a doubt that they are gay یا straight. Many struggle with it for years یا even their whole lives.
So basically, what I'm saying is that confusion about sexuality is normal and perfectly okay. Most of us are sexual beings, and harmless experimentation can help us discover who we are.
And some of us don't want to be labeled یا are struggling with our sexual identity. This is fine, too! As teenagers (I'm speaking for most people on this site, سے طرف کی no means all), we may want to be accepted into a group. Don't feel pressured to pick a side just for that purpose!
I hope this مضمون has helped آپ discover something about yoruself. Be happy with who آپ are whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, یا anything else!
But really, asking other people to tell آپ whether یا not آپ are gay یا straight is nearly impossible. They can't be inside your head and go through what آپ do every day. It's up to آپ to figure that out on your own!
If that leaves آپ feeling overwhelmed, don't panic! Sexuality is an exciting and often confusing journey, only to be uncovered سے طرف کی you! If I've learned anything from going through years feeling straight, gay, bi, and even asexual it's this:
1. You cannot choose who آپ are. Don't let anyone convince آپ that آپ should change.
2. Your sexual orientation can change over time, but this is never under your control.
3. Don't let anyone put a label on آپ and tell آپ who آپ are! Only آپ know how آپ feel!
4. Don't feel obligated to pick a side, whether straight, gay, bisexual, یا anything else.
5. Your sexual orientation is often not clear. If it were, most people would be able to say without a doubt that they are gay یا straight. Many struggle with it for years یا even their whole lives.
So basically, what I'm saying is that confusion about sexuality is normal and perfectly okay. Most of us are sexual beings, and harmless experimentation can help us discover who we are.
And some of us don't want to be labeled یا are struggling with our sexual identity. This is fine, too! As teenagers (I'm speaking for most people on this site, سے طرف کی no means all), we may want to be accepted into a group. Don't feel pressured to pick a side just for that purpose!
I hope this مضمون has helped آپ discover something about yoruself. Be happy with who آپ are whether you're gay, straight, bisexual, transgender, intersex, asexual, یا anything else!