Why do آپ think there's a double standard for guy's to consider a girl to be out of their league and it be okay;but for a girl to do that then she's considered a wimp?

like when a guy finds a girl to be out of his league it's made into a quest to get that chick سے طرف کی him and his friends. But if a woman finds a man to be out of her league then she considers to normally not pursure him,afraid she'll fall on her face. i think that society has دیا us these ideas that ehse are what we're suppose to do in a sit. like this but i dont always believe in that and i was just wanting your view on that.sorry that its alot and if your still confused.

lol its ok i kinda under stand