this is what i have tried with janiquaxoxo, wannaBa_goan, magnetmagnet, a ton of people! but none of them are friendly people. they all just want to cuss me and. u should see wannaBa_goan, i tried to be really nice to her, see what happens when u try to be nice 2 her.

i just focus on how stupid they sound, and fortunately im one of the few ppl that dont care at all about what other ppl say, i just kinda ignore them and keep talking :)

i`m REALLY mean when i`m angry but once i calm down i just regret it & wanna work it out. then you forgive but DON`T FORGET =P

Temptasia I love how you're getting into the mothering questions. Lol. It doesn't happen to me much because I really hate conflict but a good ol' hug out helps a lot.

My real answer is that not everybody is going to get along. Especially not on an Internet website.

I dislike phony sweetness more than than I dislike mean people. I would much rather know exactly where things stand than to deal with some folks who are not at all what they seem. All smoochy smoochy in public, and back-biting curs behind the scenes.

I like a good spar. If someone doesn't like me and wants to bring it, I'm more than happy to play with them as long as they are worthy opponents. If I can see they have no brains or wit backing up their snideness, though, then I just shake my head and move on.

Just kidding . lol :)

I know it's the best thing, but I usually don't say a word and pretent nothing has happened..

If i have an argument or a fight with someone very close to me i try to settle it thorugh peaceful ways without making a big issue out of it because i know nobody is perfect not me not you and i dont feel relaxed until that dispute has been settled between us.

i always think this way even i shouldn't

I do this ALL the time! lol even though ik its rong

i couldnt resist!!

i also like to "forgive and forget".

you cant control what other people do, no reason it has to bother you.

Someone said something to me that was not-so-nice, but I don't think she realized it. It was hurtful, but I just kinda distanced myself from her, and it was all good. That's just one of the things that's happened here. The other is when someone accused me of being big-headed or something, and I tried explaining myself. I don't think they got it, but whatever.

I just had to pick this one! :)

I try very hard to be polite, but you just can't please everyone. Most of the time I let bygones be bygones.

or phisically, that always works to.

I've just seen from experience that trying to work it out can make things worse if someone doesn't want to listen to you. If they're determined to hate you, even if you politely try and walk to them about it, they can just freak out at you and make threats you're not sure they can follow through on. It's probably better, in those cases, to just rise above and move on.

critism just kinda bounces off of me so...yeah

What DrDevience said. Most things that upset me are minor upsets, and I usually want to try to work it out with words, but as some of you know, Harold's Rule #6 is People Don't Read. That is a problem when you're trying to explain yourself in text: people are going to interpret things the wrong way regardless of what you've written. It's happened again and again for me on this site: trying to explain or elaborate something results in people thinking they're being attacked. It makes no sense, but hey, Harold's Rule #6.

For major upsets, I realize that the problem lies with me: it's some hot-button issue of mine and I just want to react. That's the best time to walk away. As Trent the Uncatchable was wont to say: "There is no problem so large it cannot be run away from" (sic).

But don't say it to women... Doesn't translate.

It takes me a while to forget, though.

thats what i usually do.

I admit that most of the time i ignore it..

that made me laugh (hug it out bee- otch)
still laughing!!!

That's what I really do. When someone really annoys me I just want to forget her/him.

They are LOSERS anyway not everyone but the ppl tht think they r better than every one else

sometimes it's hard!!

I want to forgive what i did wrong and then I want they forget to know what I did wrong!

I'll usually try to get everything cleared up at first so I can forgive and forget, but if they don't want to be nice, I just ignore them and let it go.

“In Your Anger Do Not Sin”
Accept Your Anger and Lift It Up to God
Live in Harmony with the Will of God
Forgive Those for Whom You Hold Anger

We must be honest with what we feel and yet notallow it, which in this case is angerr, to control us. The bible tells us to be “slow” in expressing our anger. (See James 1:19; Ecclesiastes 7:9 Prov25:8.)Ephesians4-26Instructs us not to procrastinate in dealing with the issues that have produced our anger.. Ephesians 4:26 says do not let the sun go down on your anger. we have to tryand deal with the issues whil they are clear and before they grow. We need to take care of our anger and the issues that produced it bbecause sinless anger becomes sinful bitterness.. which is the product of a long held resentment


O.K. may be a bit simplistic but anger is first an emotiom then an attitude and finally it will turn into an aaction. Anger begins as a feeling of displeasure but it can develop into an attitude of hostillity and become and aggressive destructive action or behavior if we do not deal with it early on.
I hope I havent offended anyone with my what may seem to be "diatribe" and my biblical useage....Thats Irony!
Yours in His service
James

I agree with every word but I must admit that although I find it easy to forgive, it takes longer to forget.
However, I am referring to how I deal in the real world. The internet is a different story - I'm with the good DrD and Harold on that.

sorry its just me....

It annoys me when people dig at other people on the internet i think it is mean and pure cowardice they do it because they cant see them and typing it is easier...

The thing that most annoys is when I see people being rude to others, I don't mind it when they're having a go at me because I just ignore them, but when they do it to other people, I have to do something.

get even duhhhhhhhhh if some one punches u u gonna forgive him her

more fun

This always works for me.

There is sooooooo many people i would love to tell off. But Ijustdont have a heart to. I don't want to sink down to their level, otherwise poeple would hate me. I am okay with people not likeing me, I just don't like it when people hate me and make me ook like a bad person

BEAT.
THEM.
UP!!!

thats what I mostly do

HAHA! I love "The Office" one!! hug it out B@$%&!

But when it doesn't work, I just ignore them and do whatever I want. You know I have quite different tastes and get flawed by haters a lot. They sneer at me, call me weirdo and bash my fave movies, TV shows,...

lauren777222 told me something I will always keep in mind:"I'm proud to be unique!"

It really depends on the situation, I think.

ive already gotten into 2 arguments, and how they ended is with nice and kind words

i say ignore them cuz if you try to calm their anger, it'll do nothing but add more flame to the fire. ignore them and they'll see that you are not interested in what they have to say and eventually leave you alone. trust me it works!

Try and work it out as i hate hostility and negativity especially on fanpop as its unnecessary.I like to keep the peace.

i just say i'm sorry you feel this way, then ignore them if they say it again.

Who are the nice guys who picked 'Beat them up?'

i pick beat them up just kidding that will be funny

I just forget about it

Depending on what was said and who it is.

It's great when you can work it out {peacefully} & really great when you can HUG: "hug it out"!! XD YAY