I have kind of a confusing family problem. Can anyone help me?

Hi I suggest get them both in the same room and tell them whats been going on and remind them آپ are not lying and tell them to stop making your life a nightmare and start listening to each other and then see what happens. Hope that makes sense. Other than that just keep repeating what آپ say to both of them until they get fed up. یا tell them to talk it through with each other. I dont know parents آپ love them but they do cause trouble.

sorry about your pain, but آپ do not need the yelling یا the negative arguments it doesnt help ease anything, mum sounds like she needs to go off to cry as she is hurting deep, and dad seems to yell to help him deal with it. but he should go out to the mountains and yell out all his hurt and his own pain for allowing it in, he is probably feeling useless, as is his wife, but they need to be together for it will drive them apart. your pain is deep , and آپ always try to put a brave face on so others do not see how آپ trully feel, آپ have a great heart, one that cares for your parents a great deal, which is honorable, آپ are a great daughter. do آپ go to church and have آپ been baptised? but your parents are at a lose to what to do. many of the grets of life have suffered in silence, as it helps to build a pain tolerance and acceptance, and only آپ can do it. when was the last ime آپ went out as a family, to the beach? i feel the sadness and the hurt of all of you, he is angry, at him self , she doesnt know what to do, and آپ stuck in the middle. with the blessings of God , and a few prayers i pray that your pain leaves and enters those that deserve it. keep your chin up, آپ may have to call a family meeting, there will be some crying and much acceptance, but آپ are the one with the disease that will fade.may God bless آپ and aid آپ all in a cure, may peace be with you, have آپ thought of writing a book describing of how دن to دن life has been for all of you.i hope your mum and dad can talk, before its to late, a family that cries and does all together helps the pain go away, good luck to all of آپ and may God be with آپ always;-]

Get both of your parents in the same room and have it out with them from the beginning. Explain how you're so confused as آپ believe their trust in آپ has been broken somehow and آپ don't know what آپ have done to deserve it. Tell your mother what آپ dad said, then tell your dad what your mother کہا and ask them both to explain what they meant, how they meant it and to start communicating better with each other.
Tell your mother that her walking out on آپ because of your 'negativity' is not helping your self-esteem and آپ would appreciate a little مزید help and guidance.
Tell your father that when he yells at آپ for bottling in the pain that is is making آپ feel مزید conscious of your illness and that آپ feel آپ have done something wrong, even though آپ only did it to improve your mothers life-style and to keep her in the house a bit more.

Explain to them that they need to start communicating with each other better, before they can start communicating to you, as when they say different things it confuses آپ and آپ can't do right for doing wrong.

I know how آپ feel. Parents never listen. The best thing to do is bring them both to آپ and say ok i want آپ both to bebquiet while I tell آپ this than آپ may say what آپ wish and tell them your feelings

maybe your mom and dad had a fight یا a long دن that can get some people frustrated.