HELP!!!!!

Honestly? I know آپ probably won't want to hear this, but the best thing آپ can do is let her go. Let her think what she wants.

I've gone through way too many sucky friendships to be able to spot true دوستوں and fake friends. If this "friend" doesn't like آپ for who آپ are and insults آپ and says you're "the problem in her life" that's HORRIBLE! Why would آپ want یا need a friend like that?

True دوستوں would never say that to you. Sure they may be angry but real دوستوں give آپ a chance to explain yourself no matter what. This girl didn't give آپ any chances. Plus, she's choosing her other friend over you, which hurts, I know. It makes a really strained, dysfunctional relationship when someone comes in the middle but آپ can't blame it all on the "other friend." It's your bffs fault just as much so, if not more, for falling under the other friend's influence and totally dissing/ditching you.

Sorry for the cold, hard truth but آپ can get so many better دوستوں that treat آپ well. DON'T SETTLE! NEVER SETTLE! I used to, but I've learned from my mistakes and learned to not go back to the people that cause آپ heartache and drama baecause they're not worth it at all. I know it sounds cheesy and cliche but it's the truth.

Truly a good true friend would NEVER EVER say anything so horrible, I had kindof the same problem when I moved from America to New Zealand Every one made fun of me, the way I talked mostly, I started to sit with a group that looked friendly enough, then one دن we were talking about what our favourite things were and I کہا I wanted to be a vet, one of the girls, for some reason کہا that I couldn't hang around with them because I was ruining their "social credit". I learned soon learned that I needed to find better دوستوں then them. Pretend that آپ don't care and shrug it off, it's hard, but after a while she will get bored just teasing آپ about something that آپ don't care about. Good luck and i know آپ will find better دوستوں if آپ just keep smiling

Talk to the other friend. Ask what's going on and find out why she's doing this, wether it's on purpose یا because she got the wrong impression of you. If she tells آپ off than you'll know who the problem is, and if she realizes that she was wrong than ask her to help آپ talk to your friend. If آپ can't talk to the other friend than try to get to your friend again. if she won't talk to آپ than perhaps she simply wasn't as good a friend as آپ thought she was.

I can say that you're friend isn't very nice I mean "the problem in her life"? COME ON! She obviously dosen't want to resolve things.......but that dosen't mean that آپ can't دکھائیں a little of that self-defense in you. آپ can stand up for your self! Don't let it get to you. And everybody knows that the ones causing problems for someone is مزید weak than the victim.(Right now you're the victim.)

i think sara is right. آپ need to let her go, if she thinks you're the problem in her life, then just leave it at that. right now, i think you're the good guy right now, just do this: اگلے time she calls, make her listen to what آپ think of all of this. but if she still hates you, then it's her lost...PS آپ sound like a great friend:)