I agree with Mrs-Grint but I also hate how, here in America, if a guy has sex a lot he's just a "pimp" and it's cool now. But if a girl has sex once and it gets out she's suddenly a huge slut. And the fact that some men think that they have huge power over us and say our place is in the kitchen. (This guy at school would tell my friend to take her place in the باورچی خانے, باورچی خانہ all the time because "that's where she belongs")
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AGH!!!! I hate both of those things! I've gotten مزید relaxed with the topic of sex; I'm starting to see it as مزید of a need, and it's really no one's business who has sex with who. So long as the women are still PICKING who they choose to do it with, and not just fucking everyone, I don't see them as sluts. I don't think that men should have the right to hump anything that moves and be considered "awesome" for it. I see men as sluts just as I would see a woman as a slut. I don't get why it's not the same thing. It's really fucking retarded. I also hate how if a guy fails at hitting on a girl she's a 'bitch' یا a 'freezer.' You're just a fucking loser, dude. Don't put it off on the girl.
And I would raise hell on that one guy. If I didn't مککا, عجیب الخلقت him. If I didn't مککا, عجیب الخلقت him, I'd make it to where he wished that was all I did.
ARGGGHHH!! I KNOW! There's this guy at my school who's shagged nearly all my friends, and he's fine. But THEM, they're treated like freakin' hookers! It annoys me so much. He's never blamed, it's always the girls. And, this is also related to the سیکنڈ thing, he asked me out once and I کہا no thanks, and that apparently makes me a frigid cow. ME?? Frigid?! Have آپ SEEN me on the Sex spot? Jesus.
I've seen آپ on the Sex spot. :D آپ are no frigid cow (and yes, that is a compliment XD). He's just butthurt. If it's brought up again, just say that he's pissed because he doesn't have any game. That'll be a blow to the manly ego.
Grrr......That makes me so annoyed! there was once this song called "Pregnant" with a line going (it was about a women) "put that girl in my kitchen!" i'll post the link, its prety sexist. link
Well, first off, obviously that women are paid less than men, that women are protrayed مزید as the housewife, etc. And in Afghanistan women aren't allowed to walk down the streets without their husband یا a male relative. Even in South Africa 1 out of 3 girls are expected to finish school, whilst 1 in 2 are expected to be raped at least once in their lives. When I see something like that on TV, on the radio, یا even out in the town. It just... really .. pisses me off, y'know?
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Yeah, I do know. It makes me angry that people just let it happen!
*Sigh* I'm glad that I live in the states, though women are mostly projected as sexual objects here. It's still better than Afghanistan and South Africa. We really need to get some مزید gender equality pretty much everywhere.
It's not that bad in the UK either. But I hate the way some people tell me how I'd be a bad Christian wife, because "their place" is to stay at ہوم and look after the offspring, whilst the man goes off to work. Even some of my relatives say that it's "unnatural" for a woman to have a career.
Society's obsession with marriage as the most important thing for women. We've got فلمیں like 27 Dresses and Bride Wars that take this idea as a given. As an extension, there's ideas about how women should be in relationships. This kind of stuff ticks me off a lot lately.
(Trying to answer the سوال as I believe it was meant)
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آپ did a good job at answering. Kudos! Yeah, that's only SLIGHTLY obnoxious. It really does seem like nowadays, the most amazing and accomplishing thing a woman can do is get married. Not, آپ know, go to college and get started on a successful career یا anything...
The موسیقی ویڈیوز we have now-a-days. The female dancers are often dressed provocativilly, okay, *lutty as if women are just sex objects! i find that so annoying: like if we dont dress like that we're not worth it. I also HATE playboy/girl, NO-ONE should feel like objects, whather male یا female!
Oh yeah, i also think the twilight sagas annoyingly sexist. Bella (the main role) always gets safed from danger from her boyfriend, she cant محفوظ herself! its sssooo annoying, like women cant محفوظ themselfs!
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I agree about Twilight. That's so true. Have آپ been to the CAT spot- we talk about it a lot there.?
really, wow, that's really awful! i bet they were probably think sometihng along the lines of this: "Hey let's imply all girls are good for are their butts/boobs and make sure our youngest generation of bright minds know it!"
In my town, the women are paid less than men for the same job. It's been brought up سے طرف کی someone, and there's a huge case about it. The council won't pay up, and it's all been going on for years now.
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I really hope that that draws to a close soon! I don't see how businesses can pay women less than men, it's ridiculous!
What I think is misogynistic is how men (or even some women) will insist that that if lesbians have sex, it is not really sex because no penis is involved.
Also, the whole psychological idea of penis envy, and how it is still believed today. And how if a girl doesn't have a dad, society thinks that is really unhealthy. It doesn't matter if she doesn't have a mom یا if a boy doesn't have a mother.
I agree with all the above جوابات but I really hate that the media thinks that women should be married یا have childern. I'm not against these things but not ALL women HAVE to be married یا have childern. It's their choice. On facebook, I was looking through the likes and one کہا "four Things Every Girl Wants In Life 1- Find a boyfriend, 2- Find true love, 3- Get Married, 4- Start a Family". Not to mention there was many likes on that one. That really pissed me off.
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Agreed, this obsession over children is really pissing me off. It's like a woman is at first defined as a mother. I know that some women who don't have children are really despised, even سے طرف کی other women (who are mothers). Let the women have the choice to have a child یا not.
uhuh, i personally would like to start a family, but i'll let it come to me in time, i don't want to rush into it when i just 16 یا have 10 kids and wanting more. Also i find it sexist how if آپ decide not to have children, socitety seems to hate you. آپ haven't دیا birth? society hates you. آپ had a abortion? society hates you.
I know it's not such a big deal for some people, but I don't like the fact that a woman who is getting married HAS inevitably to choose her husband's name. I always felt like the woman's identity was confused with her husband's. I know the law in some countries lets the choice to the women, but in France for example, if a woman wants to give her child her name, she can only if the husband is okay with it. The child has سے طرف کی default his father's name.
And also, the usage of "Miss" which is useless and old school. Well, and the equivalent for men? None.
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It is a big deal, xleeloo! i totally agree, which is why i have a combo fo both my parents names. :)
I completely agree with you. The name is , at least symboallicay if not othewise, a part of one's identiy and that it is expected the woman is the one who should just give it up and embrace her husband's is annoying,
Oh and I forgot to تبصرہ on the other part with which I completely agree with as well. Your example with titles is anouther illustration that being married is still condidered important for women. Hopefully some دن the Miss and Mrs forms will be replaced سے طرف کی Ms. I know many people think it's just a nuisance to insist on such changes in language, but since language does reflect certain social attitudes, I think it does not harm ridding it of sexism.
First of all, I don't like how most of the people against women's reproductive rights are men, yet they themselves will never ever be pregnant. They're never going to know what it's like for women, so how could they possibly know from experience, what's best for them. And I'm not really talking about doctors at all, I'm talking about men outside of the medical field.
سیکنڈ of all, Bella Swan. She is, IMO, the WORST female character ever! She's always dependent on Edward یا Jacob for everything, she whines like a little baby when she can't be with Eddie, AND the scary thing is that girls actually look up to her. Seriously, I think because of her, instead of girls wanting to be strong, independent (this doesn't necessarily mean single) women who respect themselves and can stand on their own two feet, girls are going to be airheaded, dependent women who play fairytale princess and depend on men to solve all their problems یا rescue them.