please help. my friend and i are fighting over a guy we both like and he likes both of us too. what do i do?

Okay, if some guy is better than your best friend FOREVER, than obviously your "bff" realy isn't your bff. Your bff should always comes first. Your bff should be like a sister not a person آپ fight with, she isn't your enemy, is she?

If آپ fight constantally over him, apperantlly آپ would rather have somebody who you'll maybe spend a سال یا two with and after that, آپ most likely won't have your BFF.

Rember love

Life has chances.
Only forgive.
Varities of good things come to the good.
Everyone deserves a good BFF.

Bros before hos, man. یا in this case, girls before guys. A guy's no reason to break up a friendship.

Friendship is much مزید important then a boy!

سے طرف کی the way I think he is not a good person cuz he loves both of you!
Don't lose دوستوں cuz of a boy

If آپ are hitting your friend that is really bad.
And in this kind of fight آپ always pick your friend before a guy because most likely آپ will break up with this guy in some months and آپ wont have a bff. so tell me is a boyfriend for afew months better than a bff forever?

i guess we maybe been there but i had it much esayer then آپ i well went go with him and then best friend went go with him but i didn't love him

آپ have to talk with your friend talk it out, if آپ say آپ love him and want to go out with him آپ should talk with your friend and even do آپ know how she feels about him?

well i see it this way, its either the guy یا the friend. آپ cant have both and everything be fine and dandy. and if the guy likes both of you, what makes آپ so sure that he wouldnt cheat on one of آپ with the other? i think the guys isnt worth it.

Wait, he asked آپ to marry him and you're only at school? آپ must be like 16 یا under? Obviously he was joking about the marriage then! Seriously, if he really loved آپ he wouldn't let آپ fight with your best friend. Chances are you're gonna break up with him sooner یا later and then آپ won't have a best friend. I would ALWAYS choose my best friend over some boy I like/love یا whatever. That's what true دوستوں do. Sit down with your friend and talk about it. Stop all this fighting because it's getting آپ no where at all. I've got a boyfriend at the moment and as much as I love him if he started to do all this stuff like fancy my best friend then I wouldn't put up with it...No matter how much I like him. I love my best friend so I would definitely choose her. The reason she's probably fighting back as well is because she's obviously mad, I can't blame her for being mad! But ask yourself, do آپ really wanna loose your best friend? You've probably known them longer than this boy. So, really, choose carefully یا you'll be about to loose someone really special to you.

U shouldn't let guy ruin yr friendship! If u really like the guy, talk to yr friend! If she's so upset, c کدال, hoe that guy likes, you, یا yr friend! Problem sollved!!!!

he sould pick one of yall. if he picks u she need to understand n if he picks her u need to understand to be there for eachother ok

well it depends on how much آپ like the guy and how much آپ wanna keep آپ freindship

talk to your friend and talk to that guy
youll figure it out

Either have a contest to see who he likes مزید یا don't even bother with him.You shouldn't let a guy come in between a good freindshp.

Me an my best friend have been fighting over a boy here resently.
And i suggest that آپ guys just need to promise to eac other that آپ to are مزید important then any boy could ever be.

And good luck! <3

If آپ truly want to get this guy, just work on it. And never give up. Its totally up to him, whom will he choose. And as for your friend, if she's your true friend, she'll not oppose آپ but will try to get this guy being honest and she'll not kill the friendship. If she's not, then get ready to handle a real bitch! But in the end, its totally up to the boy...
AND آپ also need to see if the guy's good یا not! آپ can't fight with your friend for an asshole!