well, love is a feeling we can't help having. its like this big bright hole that آپ suddenly find urself falling into.the light is blinding your eyes and آپ can't see anything. آپ feel like everything has changed. and then your eyes adapt and so do you. آپ open your eyes and suddenly this whole new place pops out. everythings the same but different. suddenly the parking lot in front ur school looks like heaven. the stpid lamp post آپ used to kick so often looks like an angel, the gods messenger. love, the slight touch of it changes everything.. آپ find urself smiling alone, daydreaming a lot even fantasizing.. it makes آپ a better person.. although i'm not saying that love is a necessary boon for us. all i can say is آپ need to drop into the hole to find the light...