Let's be honest

i agree with آپ completely! i was shocked when i saw this :(

Cherl12345 all i ever did was posting on the MJ دیوار saying that we should post better quality pics and i was saying that to ALL the شائقین on this club! i didnt mention anyone special i didnt even say your name because i meant EVERYONE on here! and i assume that im one of the "two fans" that has been cyberbullying آپ and being racist just because i wrote that. ?????? what the hell?! im sorry but its seems like you're trying to make something big out of this. آپ wrote THREE مضامین about it!! just let it go. no one on here ever tried to hurt آپ یا be mean to you! just stop ok? im not trying to be rude im just saying how i feel right now.

i never liked any drama on this club and that is one of the things that makes شائقین leave. could we all please just stop arguing about this and اقدام on? think about Michael! do آپ honestly think he would want all this hate from us? i guess he would be very sad and maybe even cry if he saw what is happening here :'( we're still a family! and about the damn pictures that started this shit... cant we all just take a break from posting pictures today? just one دن یا is it too much to ask for?

This is NOT about any persons here, it’s just my opinion, in general.

I think we should try to be tolerant, generous and patient with each other (and we are, most of the time, aren’t we???), but at the same time it should be ok to talk about things that bother us.

We must remember that we’re all different, with different personalities, we come from different parts of the world and normally speak different languages, there are شائقین of all ages here, some spend a lot of time on Fanpop, others are here only occasionally, some have a great life, others struggle, some have been شائقین for years, others became شائقین just recently…

But we have a great common interest: Michael!!! We sometimes fail to understand each other, and also disagree on things, but we all love the same man and his art!! If we MJ شائقین had met, I’m sure we'd all make a big group hug and say "I love you" to one another!!!

Of course there are discussions (like in all ‘families’), but that doesn’t mean that we don’t love each other. Everyone has the right to have an opinion, sometimes we agree, sometimes not. It’s nice when we’re able to listen to the other(s), maybe we learn something new about Michael (I’ve learned A LOT from other fans!), and if we still disagree ... ok, then we can agree to disagree!!!

It has happened a few times here that a few have tried to dictate what other شائقین should be allowed to post, think, and even feel. I think that’s sad.

Fanpop is 'the boss’ here. As long as their rules are followed, we don’t really do anything wrong. It’s not ‘illegal’ to post the same pic several times. And how do we know if the same pic has been گیا کیا پوسٹ before, there are all in all nearly 170.000 MJ pics on Fanpop!!! Some find it annoying when they see a pic they've seen often before, while new MJ شائقین may be happy to find it, since they haven’t seen that many MJ pics before. Fanpop makes the rules, not the users. We may have an opinion about how we want it to be like here, but there are so many of us, we have different opinions, it's impossible to make everyone happy. Even if some are here مزید than others (not all have, یا take, the time), ‘old’ یا new fans, young یا old, experts یا those who are eager to learn... all have an equal status. We don’t want a situation where شائقین are scared of posting because they’re nervous about the reactions, do we? Every پرستار should feel welcome, ‘at home’, free, happy, safe, and have the possibility to get support and help when needed here.

The Fanpop MJ کلب could lose شائقین if we don’t act civilized. We may also scare away potential new شائقین who log onto this site to take a look. If they notice that it’s not nice here, they don’t want to شامل میں us.

آپ have complete support of mine.she wants to turn this situation to another direction.thats why she called آپ raciest. I think she's the one who tries to mess with everyone that's why she published two مضامین about "bullying" her lol.if she's the mother of all of us then why she doesn't behave like a Mom -_- why is she messing with teenagers WTF.Respect is something that آپ earn from others.you dont get it as a gift,she should know it.she's making our dear شائقین to leave this club she should be ashamed of herself.lots of شائقین are dissappointed with her stuff گیا کیا پوسٹ to this club.we're telling her to stop nicely not taking her name still she doesn't give a fuck if this club is being dead سے طرف کی her.

I seriously think we have the right to say something, if people keep posting the most known pictures of michael in this club. Like, why would آپ do that if everyone knows them already.. And we have tried to be nice and say it nicely, but people seemed to not hear anything some of us were saying. It's not like some of us are trying to be mean, we are just trying to make people understand our point. So why won't آپ hear us???

Im lost what happened?????