are/were آپ a bully, یا are آپ bullied?

me.. im kinda both, but not as mean as other bullies at my school
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-sapherequeen- said:
I've been bullied for almost as long as I could remember. When I was around..maybe four-years-old? I'm not sure how old I was exactly, but I was at a دن care center, and I remember being trapped in this play house سے طرف کی the other children. They pressed themselves against the door and windows chanting, "Baby, baby, baby" over and over in a sing-song voice. I was pretty much called 'baby' all the time there, but this incident I remember specifically.

First grade to fourth, the kids always picked on me because I was different. I was on the swings every دن the entire recess, I was dreamy in class, I was hyperactive, I liked being around people so sometimes I would follow a group of kids around and try to play with them, things like that. They either got annoyed with me and told me to go away, laughed at me, یا other things.

سے طرف کی fifth grade, things happened inside and outside school. Outside I was called "Swinger Girl" because I liked being on the swings, listening to my music. It was just my thing, آپ know? Well, I'd have a group of boys come over and pick on me all of the time. There were times when I کہا things back, but in the end I'd just end up having to go to different parks.
I also had two boys throw stones at me after getting off the bus because I was playing a flute. I think the scar I always had is still there, not really sure...
In school, I lost a friend because there was a rumor about him liking me, and one friend of his blamed it on me. This resulted in my getting picked on about a lazy eye I had during the summer when we were all at a دن Camp.

Sixth grade, picked on during the bus ride ہوم سے طرف کی three girls. It was the usual thing; You're ugly, you're weird, you're a black turd, you're a freak.

Seventh; Picked on سے طرف کی this one girl until I finally cracked, then the whole class sided with her and turned against me. I was ignored سے طرف کی the majority for about...three to seven weeks?

Eighth: I'll admit, I became a bully at that point. I wasn't as bad as آپ hear in most stories. On scales from 1-10, I'd give it a 5. I went too far with some jokes about my دوستوں and didn't know how they affected others.

Ninth: The same thing...I went too far with jokes about a boy named Duffy. Everyone disliked him, and I can't say he was a complete victim( He cheated on my best friend twice with another girl and was nonchalant about it), but what I did was still wrong and I know that.

Now I'm in tenth grade.
So, I was basically on both sides of the spectrum; I was bullied, and I bullied a bit myself. Not too happy about being on either sides. :/
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Not trying to gain sympathy سے طرف کی basically writing all of this down (Never realized how long this actually turned out to be O_O), just had the feeling that I should note that. And I trust those feelings..
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dammmmn
TeamSongz4eva posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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wow :(
galindafied posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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wow, im so sorry about all ur bulling
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missspooky said:
I been bullied all my life
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RapQueen111 said:
I've been bullied. But i learned to stand up for myself.
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oh thats good
iamagagamonster posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Yup
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zanesaaomgfan said:
I was a bully and I am bullied. I have a really deep voice and I'm always being made fun of it. It does hurt because I can't control it. I can't help it. :(
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aww *hugs you*
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*hug back* Thankies. :)
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shyboy77 said:
was bullied don't let that bother me anymore lol i mean the people who bullied me are stupid i mean i am going to start collage and have high test scores they well dropped out lol yeah who's laughing now lol
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_Ema-nescence_ said:
i hav been and am bullied. after my parents got divorced when i was 5 my dad beat me. last سال my dad beat my sister and i havent seen him since. kids at my old skool told me to go cut myself take off my makeup and turn into a prep. boys never wanted to تاریخ me cuz i was too "freaky" nobody ever got my jokes یا wat i said. all my دوستوں go to dif skools than me. i hope itll get better
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omg im sorry about u and ur dad :(
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xxXsk8trXxx said:
I've been bullied since preschool, and I'm still bullied today. Through all of that time, though, I've never known why people have bullied me. Was it because I was weird? Different? In 2nd grade, I finally cracked and went to a therapist. She gave me advice that had lasted me through the end of elementary school without being bullied. Right now, I'm in middle school, and I am being bullied سے طرف کی various groups of people seperatley. I also have to admit that I can be a little rough sometimes myself, but I try to improve that. I tell my parents and teachers if anyone bullies me, though, and they get in trouble. I don't feel intimidated, so I just consider it people annoying me.
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galindafied said:
I never got bullied like that...but I used to be awkward and quiet and people used to take advantage of me- but I got sick of it and stopped letting people push me around
I sometimes bully, people can't decide whether I'm nice یا the biggest کتیا, کتيا they know sometimes- The key is to get help, go to your دوستوں first- true دوستوں will stick up for you- and if it is getting out of hand tell your parents یا somebody آپ trust :)
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iluvllllll said:
Both.

I got picked on from about 4-6 years old. Since 1st grade I became a bully and would make my دوستوں do things for me. In 2nd grade, I stopped but on and off I would still pick on people that I don't like. So far since 2nd grade I've only done it to 2 person. Now i'm in 8th grade, doing just fine. Got picked on a little on my name but I screwed them back, so we'r cool now. ^^
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helzz said:
Yeh sadly both
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KezzMorris said:
I used to be bullied real bad but now I am neither a bully یا a victim
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MsManiaCMJ said:
None of them. Actually, i helped a few people thet've been bullied سے طرف کی other people so they can't ever do that again. In my school the teens that are good students are under protection so i kinda put them in my "group". I'm not trying to gain sympathy یا anything i just saying.
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Annitaki said:
Right now nothing.I was a few years ago.I have always been a very solitary person and I never managed to make close دوستوں although my family really loved me.That was the main cause.Anyway there were a couple of kids who constantly teased me 4 my height and that made me feeling terrible.2 years پہلے I was in a group of girls ang a specific one had told me a couple of times that I'm really stupid and I don't 'communicate' which made me to want to cry,4 me there's nothing worse than being stupid.The worse thing was that I didn't answer.I often regret 4 not leaving immidiately from their group.I've stopped hanging out with them and I'm much better now.
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