Why do people want a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship at ages 10-15?

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babybell said:
okay so as i am 14 i feel qualified to answer this.
1. Hormones - getting off with people and making out with people is just something آپ want to do due to hormones at this time in life.
2. Being a teenager is a very insecure time in someones life. When your a kid آپ don't care what people think and when your an adult آپ learn not to. Teenagers like to feel they have someone who cares other than there parents (who they think are lying and just being nice, and/or are annoying) and who shows them they care. Because the opposite gender can be most judgey, someone going out with آپ makes آپ feel like your worth it, it makes آپ feel good looking and that people like آپ as a person, which really helps self confidence and people skills at that time.
3. It's probably an in built coping technique as well. If آپ go through all the دل break, the stress and the happiness and the worrying about it probably teaches آپ very good lessons as life goes on in later life. Of someone آپ trust cheats on آپ as teenager, when it really matters آپ will be able to cope with the situation better.
4. It used to be common for people to get married in there early teens. It's probably still there in the sub-conscience that that's the time where people should start thinking about it, because even though we no longer die at thirty it's probably in built that people think well lets re produce and continue the human race as a survival technique it will take ages to evolve out of.
5. Popularity. مقبول people go out with people. Because they are hot and people want to go out with them. there fore hot people = مقبول people, and hot people = people people want to go out with. Not just hotness obviously, also being funny charming and sporty are also major factors in things like that. This means that if آپ go out with someone آپ immediately go up the food chain per say.
6. Society. Society conditions peoples to go out with people and have sex with people at a young age because that's what other, older people do, that's what so and so did (maybe a sibling) so that's what i'll do.
7. Peer pressure. لنکس in with society and popularity. I don;t think i really have this explain this one.

Hope i've been of assistance :D

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The only one I don't agree with is "Links with Popularity" answer. I'm one of the rare people that DON'T want to be popular; But overall, sweet answer. ^__^
rockzsanders posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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also yeah it's just as real and stuff as an adult relationship just less likely to last. also maturirty is a factor - if someone is a mature person, the relationship will be like a proper relationship and last for like ever...
babybell posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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why the fuck does it not دکھائیں this was a سال پہلے untill now?!
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Mela1994 said:
Cuz they don't wanna feel alone, and some of them think they have to have a bf/gf to be cool.
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Haha well im just saying at this age it probably wont last and in the end ~ when it ends your going to be مزید hurt and alone than before and i dont think thats cool :P
Nobomerelio posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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well most kids r a little houge than that
mississippigril posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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me 2
KaulitZfan posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
Fearless79 said:
Bcuz wen ur at that age آپ want to feel loved
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That means theyre parents arent spendin enough time w/ em...
Hidanfan posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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right on!
Airbender4823 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Shit, that's like 85% of the population >:p
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Hidanfan said:
I think its caused they arent spendin enough time w/ theyre parents, i spend 2 much time so..im ok XD but its just how they feel..in myopinion,call up some دوستوں and chill u dont need a realtion ship =D
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Thats what i think too! i mean at this age i would rather have someone who is my best friend with me through thick and thin not someone who in the end could break your heart!
Nobomerelio posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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exactly!
Hidanfan posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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u hit the bullzeye!
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Ovybo said:
I totally think all your جوابات are valid and such but I also think it's fine. Not at 10 یا 11 but, that's a bit too young.
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Yah,it is...but really دوستوں r better =P
Hidanfan posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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haha agreed
Nobomerelio posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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im w/ Nobomerelio on this 1...
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Airbender4823 said:
her's a reason, maybe they see relationships on tv یا فلمیں (with younge actors) and think what ever shown on the tv دکھائیں is the worst that can happen, idk, at that age i wasnt even thinking about having a boyfriend...im 16 now lol
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Haha well at our age now girls and guys are whoring themselves out :( i know a few girls at my age that have been pregnant!
Nobomerelio posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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YUCK! that is just sooo wrong! i hate people at our age who do that, FYI to them, its not sexy!
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Pepsi12Cola said:
Edward Cullen! no i'm kidding someone whos loyal mainly
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sarabeara said:
Hormones. And lots of them.
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PoddoChan said:
It's called "Love and Maturity", It depends on when people start understanding those 2 things :)
سے طرف کی the way....10 huh? I wanted it when I wad 4 یا could be 3 not so sure :P
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alejandra19 said:
because being a teenager is hard enough سے طرف کی yourself da main reason is to fell loved and to feel special with someone u also love, its all about sharing new experiences!
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bubbles4u22 said:
idk really, i think all the مقبول ppl hav them just 2 b cool & make all the ppl that dont hav a bf یا gf feel bad about themselves. U dont evn really c each othr out side of school in middl school relationships so i dont get it
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rockzsanders said:
*ahem* I have one, thank آپ very much. He's one of the few people who actually care about me, so I love him right back. And NO, I don't think I'm cool because I have a boyfriend. I'm not like this one chick I know who has a new boyfriend for each دن of the week. (She had 8 boyfriends in ONE MONTH. Sick :P) And we have been together for almost 19 months now, so ~Nya~

*I'm sorry. That was really immature and stupid of me, but everyone ask's me these kinds of idiotic questions.*
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lisa93 said:
first of all how old are u 13?
ok.....are u telling me u wouldn't یا don't?
but the reason is because they want to have some one to hold and get love from! ya it may not last but u have it and thats all that matters!
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LiilacLottiie94 said:
because if آپ fall in love with someone there is nothing آپ can do. it just takes over your life, especially at young ages like that. it feels like you're riding in a bubble of happiness
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britishPeeps said:
It makes آپ feel better about yourself i guess.
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McDreamyluva said:
well I didn't want one and not now either and I'm 16.

There are several reasons to why, biologically, socially and psychologically. If I answer this I will end up writing a 4000 word essay. No joke.
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123cosmo4 said:
Babybell is right and that is just retarded. I don't تاریخ because I don't believe in dating someone آپ don't plan on ever marrying. It is a waste of time and I've seen how terrible relationships work out because of popularity.
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moeexyz said:
What's wrong with them wanting to date.
Just because they're younger doesn't mean that they can't have some one too.
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True...so very, very true. :D
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gibbsc09 said:
گھاس, ہے im jemma and im 15 n im looking for perfect match
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sbowes9194 said:
ok i agree with u do u mean when u responce u might get deleted
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ssook78 said:
there crazy
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Seastar4374 said:
ok I'm 15 here's my persective:

High school where I am your rated on how cute آپ are, how cute your boyfriend is, and how cute of a couple آپ are. I am ranked very low on the cuteness scale, which leads to the insecurity, I don't have a boyfriend, so that leads for مزید insecurity in my case cause it makes me feel like I'm way to ugly for a boyfriend. Also, they want to know there is someone else there for them that really cares and they can go to them whenever they need something. At my school آپ need that closeness otherwise your kinda screwed, especially when your in high school becuse thats the سال when a ton of shit happens to آپ like bullying is higher and stuff like that, and its pretty much a "oh who do I wanna sleep with" thing where I am I'm not saying it is for every school thats just how it is at mine: note we have one of the highest pregnancy rates.
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KaulitZfan said:
cus i want one i wood love 2 have a bf
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and im 15
KaulitZfan posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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I think that that's a great idea to have one! i do, and I'm only 13. But read my answer below, and you'll see how dedicated we are to eachother. ;)
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: )
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campcheerio123 said:
I am 13 and I have a boyfriend. His name is Harrison, and he couldn't be anymore perfect, loyal, trustworthy, and sweet to me. We went and saw the Hunger Games, and we hang out at least everyweek in the summer. He goes to my school and last سال was in most of my classes. My parents approve him. His parents approve me. So let me answer your question. I have no clue. I guess that they think that they'll be مقبول if he یا she has a girlfriend یا a boyfriend. I know my friend Lisa has one, یا at least says she dooes. She got 'asked out' on a bus 1 week before school started. She says yes, but they don't talk at school, don't have eachother's cell phone یا ہوم numbers, and I don't even consider them to be together. So in conclusion to your question, I think they do it to be cool, یا to make themselves popular.
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yappy24 said:
because with all the crap on tv and magazines and جنک, فضول like that, kids just want to act like older than they really are
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bellgirl said:
im 15
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ajack222 said:
because people want to experience having a boyfriend/girlfriend at a young age plus if their دوستوں are in a relationship with someone they might feel left out
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CokeBoy97 said:
TBH IDK. Nuff said.
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