firstly, welcome to fanpop! that's how it works. 1Add someone 2Give a سہارا and say "hi i've added you!" 3this user will add you( he/she'll peobably give a سہارا back) in here, no one adds آپ if آپ ask for it.
I was actually going to earlier, but I have a strict rule of having to have 5 کلب in common with someone before I پرستار them. Sometimes I break the rule if people aren't in very many کلب in general, but even then we have to have at least one in common. And since آپ haven't joined any clubs... I can't add you.
