Can آپ help me with this serious guy problem? its urgent!

Ok, so this guy that i have known for years, suddenly decides to start texting me repeatedly, asking me out. So, i keep texting him back telling him no because i have a boyfriend. Then he started repeatedly asking me why. I told him i couldn't say. The reason why i couldn't tell him was because I didn't want to hurt his feelings سے طرف کی telling him i didn't like him, and because my boyfriend is a football player and the guy that likes me is really scrawny and got beaten up سے طرف کی a girl last سال and my boyfriend has the ability's to smash his face in the ground, and even though the guys annoying i don't want him to get hurt. The texts stopped but i still need advice. Helpful جوابات please!
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Do it in person texting about this stuff is just wrong.
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polarwagon15 said:
Take about five dozen of eggs. Start putting them in a bowl. Mix the fuck out of them.
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best advice ever.
XxKeithHarkinxX posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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hahah xD
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^ +1 internets
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NoahFanNumber1 said:
Oh. You're one of THOSE girls, hm?
Truthfully, who do آپ think you'd be happier with? And I'm not saying which makes آپ look better, I saying who is the nice one. Carries your stuff for you, listens to you, helps you, talks to you, responds to you. That's every girls' dream boyfriend, but which one acts مزید like this?

You're young. There will be many many many many boys. This little thing, you'll forget it سے طرف کی اگلے year. You'll be with a completely different guy. Just have fun now while آپ can.

I'd say give the guy a chance, یا just say آپ can be friends. Don't hurt him. I don't have experience with dating (has never had one boyfriend), but I've been observing over the years. Being invisible sure has its perks! XD

LASTLY, (dang I have a lot to say!) don't judge a book سے طرف کی its cover,...... says the girl with glasses, braces, short hair, big ears, acne, and a big nose who's going to grow up to be a famous psychiatrist one day... >_>







DANG I TALK TOO MUCH SOMEONE SHUT ME UP BEFORE I EXPL-....
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Oh us philosophical invisibles. XD
JaseKS posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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آپ understand me ;v;
NoahFanNumber1 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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@noah Agreed.
BlindBandit92 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Thank u for that gentle answer too. :)
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iamagagamonster said:
well...
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 well...
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lol
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:))
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springely said:
Tell him to start lifting.
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XxKeithHarkinxX said:
Okay, آپ wouldn't تاریخ a guy just because he's scrawny and got beaten up سے طرف کی a girl HOLYFUCKYOU'RESHALLLOW

I feel really bad for him tbh.

It's better to be completely honest with him why آپ can't تاریخ him.

Seriously stop being a shallow fuck and tell him.
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Do u listen? i کہا i dont wanna تاریخ him because i wasnt attracted to him! If i dated him, سے طرف کی boyfriend would beat him up, and i dont want to see him get hurt -_-
TotalDramaDoll6 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Funny, cause when we say something about you, آپ get all defensive. Do we get defensive, sure, but we are not hypocrites.
ConnerandTravis posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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*Facepalm* This argument is really immature when u read it all. I'm done with your immatures comebacks, I don't want to be apart of ur attitude for people. آپ don't get the time of دن anymore. And btw, i already know wat u little cyber bullys have in mind for ur اگلے comeback, goodbye.
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ConnerandTravis said:
He'd much rather hear the truth than to have آپ lie.

Okay just because someone is scrawny and got beaten up سے طرف کی a girl doesn't mean they are a bad person. Your boyfriend could have looks and muscles and whatever, but the scrawny kid could have a heart.


Also, girls can be tougher than guys so just because he got beaten up سے طرف کی one, doesn't make the guy weak.


Answer the poor guy. He'd much rather have آپ answer no, than wait for آپ to say no. That would hurt him even more
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ugh, do people take time to read anymore? -_-
TotalDramaDoll6 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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*then*
ConnerandTravis posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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@Total Alright then find a way to tell him nicely then. That is a good idea.
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seffro said:
Well....
when we furries don't like someone
We eat him/her
Give it a try
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 Well.... when we furries don't like someone We eat him/her Give it a try
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lol! :D
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SBTrulz said:
Here:
1. Sweetly, kindy, and gently reject him.
2. Hug a tree.
3. Lick a wall.
4. Give a cookie to a hobo.
And that is how Equestria was formed! ;)
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 Here: 1. Sweetly, kindy, and gently reject him. 2. Hug a tree. 3. Lick a wall. 4. Give a cookie to a hobo. And that is how Equestria was formed! ;)
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lol
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JaseKS said:
آپ have to be honest with him and tell him that you're already dating someone whom آپ love very much. Being honest is the best option. Everyone deserves to be told the truth.

Look, I understand that آپ don't want to hurt his feelings, but think of it this way: سے طرف کی not telling him the truth, you're leaving room for him to assume the worst.
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Exactly.
BlindBandit92 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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Thank u for the gentle answer.
TotalDramaDoll6 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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:)
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@Total, LMAO
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BlindBandit92 said:
Tell the guy the truth. If he founds out another way he will be crushed so your helpful ideas will probably not work in the long run. if آپ are not attracted to him just say so. i would rather a person tell me straight up then lie about it.
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Alright, but im having trouble how to say something mean, nicely.
TotalDramaDoll6 posted پہلے زیادہ سے سال ایک
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^Honestly the truth hurts sometimes but I wouldn't always call it mean آپ know. Just nicely "I am sorry but I don't see آپ that way. (If he is a good friend.) I see آپ as a friend than a boyfriend. I would still like to consider آپ a friend. I am sorry but that is how I feel. یا if he isn't a friend to آپ just say what I کہا but take out friend.
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@Blind I am sensative, because im a girl, and im not a female wrestler. Also, i care about peoples feelings, and i dont like to see them get hurt. Telling something to hurt them because آپ have to is ok, but it hurts, and adding hurtful things like "deal with it u crybaby!' یا something only makes it worse.
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Lilmisshipster said:
Tbh i'd rather تاریخ the scrawny then the football and so what if he got beat up سے طرف کی a girl what if he fought back and beat the hell out of her would u like him then?
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iPsychic said:
Well, I'ma مزید into scrawny and skinny guys than boys with huge muscles. Maybe, آپ should just stay siiiiiiingle. Everything's so much easier when your single it seems xD Otherwise, just tell the poor, scrawny boy no and such.
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Book-Freak said:
Tell him, in person, that آپ are very sorry and آپ dont want to hurt his feelings but he is just a friend to you.
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