If آپ could decide, How and why should a couple fall in love?

I think it really depends of the situation and the people. ;)

Why a couple fall in love is c=because of the charackter of the other person. That should be مزید important than the body یا something else. But there must be an attraction یا it wouldn't work ;)
How... I think the most romantic thing is a love that grows out of a long friendship. They just know that they are the best دوستوں and that there is مزید and مزید things they love of the other person. :)

So I think that is a kind of answer آپ expected یا did I understand it in a wrong way?

the most meet physically یا through any means of communication. they most learn to love each others character, they most learn tolorate each others faults, appreciate, resect and be attracted to each other.