A guide to a successful, drama free fanclub in a simple guide
1) RESPECT EVERYONE REGARDLESSS OF RACE, GENDER IDENTITY, SEX, SEXUALITY یا RELIGION
This one should be a given, it doesn't matter who آپ are یا what آپ believe, respect other people, even if they contradict your beliefs
2) TRAUMA TRIGGERS
Trigger Warnings (or TW) is a phrase I picked up on tumblr, essentially it's so people can avoid posts using tumblr savior (which blocks posts if they contain a certain word) that they find traumatic. Now, keeping this in mind, آپ CAN DRAW/WRITE/DO WHAT آپ WANT, if آپ want to post it, post it as a link listing all the possible triggers, as for posting them in مضامین and فورم posts, فہرست the triggers at the سب, سب سے اوپر of the مضمون and for questions, پولز and videos, put it in the title. Now, آپ shouldn't abuse these triggers, they aren't for something آپ simply dislike, they are for something that UPSETS آپ TO THE POINT OF EXTREME DISTRESS, these are things like phobias, rape, blood, gore, suicide, ect.
3) IT IS OKAY TO BE UPSET سے طرف کی SOMETHING
Believe it یا not, it is okay to take offence to something! یا not agree with something یا whatever, but, don't be a dick about it. Politely mention that آپ are offended سے طرف کی what someone has said, allow the other person to apologise and اقدام on, do not cause an argument. However, do not take it upon yourself to try and remove the thing گیا کیا پوسٹ that causes offence, that is up to the original author, they may just make amendments, آپ never know.
4) APOLOGISING IS A THING PEOPLE NEED TO DO
Apologies can go a long way! So, if آپ have, intentionally یا not, offended someone, apologise to them! Don't cause a scene, even if آپ feel they are wrongly offended.
Extra note: Do not feel آپ need to take something down, however. There's a difference between offence and dislike, آپ make the final judgement. Again, آپ can draw/write/do what آپ want.
5) THINGS آپ PROBABLY SHOULDN'T JOKE ABOUT
Also a فہرست for those of آپ who don't quite know what's acceptable and what isn't
A. Rape
B. Suicide
C. Racial Stereotypes
D. Gender Stereotypes
E. Murder
F. Mental illness
G. Any illness really
Extra note: Using slurs like nigger, retard یا fag as an insult isn't a good idea either.
6) DON'T TAG YOUR HATE
Tagging one's hate refers to writing یا drawing something displaying a dislike for something and then posting it somewhere all about the thing آپ dislike. The only thing you'll succeed in doing is making people upset. So just don't.
7) THIS SITE IS NOT MEANT TO BE 100% CHILD FRIENDLY
Whilst these are actually general tips for people of all ages, this site is not for children under 13. I suppose this falls under "People can do what they want". If آپ are under 13 then I really don't think آپ have a right to be shocked, really.
The website warned آپ already when آپ first joined, it's like clicking on a link after you've been warned of the trigger, really.
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So yes, after spending a سال travelling around the internet, I have brought آپ wisdom from a much happier website called tumblr! :D
Of course, this is a guide
Meaning آپ don't have to listen to it but it might help you.
1) RESPECT EVERYONE REGARDLESSS OF RACE, GENDER IDENTITY, SEX, SEXUALITY یا RELIGION
This one should be a given, it doesn't matter who آپ are یا what آپ believe, respect other people, even if they contradict your beliefs
2) TRAUMA TRIGGERS
Trigger Warnings (or TW) is a phrase I picked up on tumblr, essentially it's so people can avoid posts using tumblr savior (which blocks posts if they contain a certain word) that they find traumatic. Now, keeping this in mind, آپ CAN DRAW/WRITE/DO WHAT آپ WANT, if آپ want to post it, post it as a link listing all the possible triggers, as for posting them in مضامین and فورم posts, فہرست the triggers at the سب, سب سے اوپر of the مضمون and for questions, پولز and videos, put it in the title. Now, آپ shouldn't abuse these triggers, they aren't for something آپ simply dislike, they are for something that UPSETS آپ TO THE POINT OF EXTREME DISTRESS, these are things like phobias, rape, blood, gore, suicide, ect.
3) IT IS OKAY TO BE UPSET سے طرف کی SOMETHING
Believe it یا not, it is okay to take offence to something! یا not agree with something یا whatever, but, don't be a dick about it. Politely mention that آپ are offended سے طرف کی what someone has said, allow the other person to apologise and اقدام on, do not cause an argument. However, do not take it upon yourself to try and remove the thing گیا کیا پوسٹ that causes offence, that is up to the original author, they may just make amendments, آپ never know.
4) APOLOGISING IS A THING PEOPLE NEED TO DO
Apologies can go a long way! So, if آپ have, intentionally یا not, offended someone, apologise to them! Don't cause a scene, even if آپ feel they are wrongly offended.
Extra note: Do not feel آپ need to take something down, however. There's a difference between offence and dislike, آپ make the final judgement. Again, آپ can draw/write/do what آپ want.
5) THINGS آپ PROBABLY SHOULDN'T JOKE ABOUT
Also a فہرست for those of آپ who don't quite know what's acceptable and what isn't
A. Rape
B. Suicide
C. Racial Stereotypes
D. Gender Stereotypes
E. Murder
F. Mental illness
G. Any illness really
Extra note: Using slurs like nigger, retard یا fag as an insult isn't a good idea either.
6) DON'T TAG YOUR HATE
Tagging one's hate refers to writing یا drawing something displaying a dislike for something and then posting it somewhere all about the thing آپ dislike. The only thing you'll succeed in doing is making people upset. So just don't.
7) THIS SITE IS NOT MEANT TO BE 100% CHILD FRIENDLY
Whilst these are actually general tips for people of all ages, this site is not for children under 13. I suppose this falls under "People can do what they want". If آپ are under 13 then I really don't think آپ have a right to be shocked, really.
The website warned آپ already when آپ first joined, it's like clicking on a link after you've been warned of the trigger, really.
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So yes, after spending a سال travelling around the internet, I have brought آپ wisdom from a much happier website called tumblr! :D
Of course, this is a guide
Meaning آپ don't have to listen to it but it might help you.