is there too many anti's here and not enough balance?

I can understand what you're saying to a degree. There are many antis on here, but we must commend them for a few things. Alot of the antis I have talked to know alot about Twilight. They know the characters and it seems that they are genuinely curious as to why so many people like the کتابیں and the movies.

آپ are right that there are alot of antis on here, but if آپ can't really handle the ~negative picks, then آپ can just skip over them :) That's what I do! Or, I may just slip in and say a thing یا two :P

There are also alot of people here who had been شائقین since the beginning, but the movies/recent explosion of the series ruined it for them. They've had time to re-evaluate the series and analyzed and seen the flaws. Nothing is perfect in this series, even Edward :P They note the corniness, the dependancy of characters, the complete illogic of the series and calmly discuss. That's the pure intention of this spot. :)

The C.A.T. spot is for everyone who is fed up with, loving, used-to-love, hating, etc, Twilight. Those who like Twilight can't really express their opinion because alot of the newer شائقین tend to yell at them! I'm sure we've all experienced that! If we have a different opinion than them, they tend to call us names یا whatever. And this spot is simply to escape that. I'm شائقین of both the Twilight spot and C.A.T. because, if I need a break from the fangirls over at the Twilight spot, یا if I want to debate a little, I head on over to this spot. :)

I have had مزید than enough conversations with these lovely cats, and they don't scratch یا claw at me for liking یا defending Twilight. Although, they keep their claws sharp, every conversation I've had here is usually civil.

*puts on her LOLcats accent* liek nooooo teh kittehs wont pountz on u cuz we wuvs u!!!!11

(Ow, typing that hurt my brain...)

ANYWAY. *gives an Extra Big Momcat Snug* I totally sympathize with you. It can be hard and discouraging when you're outnumbered. (Try being a conservative on the debate spot, lol).

And I agree that we need مزید balance. That's why I'm so glad آپ decided to join! We need مزید people like آپ here! ^__^

Here's how I personally see it - it's not that there are too many antis. There just aren't enough Twilighters...not many who will really speak out for their side, anyway. I think what happens is that most Twilighters who come here either leave in disgust as soon as they see all the criticism and anti stuff, یا they شامل میں up but feel too intimidated to really speak up and just fade quietly into the background while the antis do all the talking.

So that's why it kinda looks like an anti spot right now. Am I making sense? xD Besides reaching 1000 fans, one of my biggest goals for the CAT is getting enough mature, thoughtful pro-Twilighters to come over here, stick up for their side and even out the debate a little. I think that would be a huge, awesome accomplishment for the CAT if it ever happened...

But I'm rambling. =P Anyway, if you're feeling a little discouraged سے طرف کی all the anti stuff, then start contributing! Add some pro-Twilight تصاویر یا write a soapbox about why you're a پرستار of Twilight. Stand up for what آپ love and give your fandom a good name! As long as آپ have a good attitude about it and are willing to listen to what the other "kittens" have to say, you'll have nothing to be afraid یا ashamed of.

And respect is a two-way street. So if anyone dares to rate your stuff low یا put up nasty تبصرے just because it's pro, they can go eat my shorts. (Ya hear that, kittehs? DON'T MESS WITH THE MOMCAT. SHE HAS EDIBLE SHORTS.)

Wow, that was random...

Dont wanna sound like a bitch, but this is a Cat spot, and this is the only place where people can get there feelings out about what they dont like.
Where else are they gonna do it... on the twilight spots? No. because people will bitch.

I like twilight, but i like this spot more, im so sick of how overrated it has become and really this is the spot were u come to escape from everyone always talking about twilight and peoplee complaining with others....
Really i dont think there should be a balance, but thats IMO

I concur that there is certainly مزید anti content on this spot than pro Twilight content. But as MomCat said, the Twilighters don't speak up as they should. We want them to, we want to have a friendly debate with them. We don't even have to debate, we can just discuss and be buddiez. :) Talking to someone with very different tastes and ideals than me in a civilized manner is like crack to me. I love it, it's so fascinating.

The thing is though, that the people that love this series aren't speaking up. I personally dislike Twilight, but I WANT to talk to Twilighters. I may be anti, but I have no qualms against talking to people who like Twilight. I want to see how things are going on the other side of the fence.

I can understand that آپ may feel intimidated, though, سے طرف کی speaking of your love for Twilight in front of a bunch of anti's in fear of getting gang-raped, beaten, and left in an alley (like on other spots I know hurhur). That's perfectly understandable. But آپ have nothing to worry about here, I promise آپ that. I will defend anyone, pro یا anti Twilight, that gets ganged up on and/or treated nastily. So have no fear; so long as you're nice to us, we'll be nice to you. And the world goes round.

And if you'd like to be friends, سے طرف کی all means say so!<3

We're not gonna pounce on you.

The people here may be in majority 'anti' but most are respectful to Twilight شائقین if they wished to participate in a real discussion about the series rather than a never ending discussion on how "sPArkly anD Hawt iZ eDwarD cOMpared 2 JacOB? The people here wish to engage in an intelligent conversation about the series (both good and bad aspects) rather than a full paragraph about Jacob's 6-pack.

I'm also not gonna lie and say there isn't any negative content about Twilight, because there certainly is. This is because the series isn't for everyone and yet 24/7 its being shoved in our faces whether we like it یا not. Anti's should be able to have their say just as the pro-Twilight people get to have there's, and the difference here is that they know they won't get attacked سے طرف کی the 'Twilight fangirl army' if they decide to vent their negative opinion on the subject.

I agree with everyone else. We won't pounce we love to hear different opinions. Nothing like a good ol' different point-of-view to start a new discussion topic. I don't call myself anti (although I'm not a fan) and there are still aspects of the کتابیں I like. Maybe this spot is like everything else - people have a habit of focussing on the negative rather than the positive. We do need to fix the balance. I'll remember to support what I like about the series and we need مزید شائقین to شامل میں as well. I find discussion WAY مزید interesting than intimidation and one-sided opinions.

I'm an anti myself (spare me!) and i believe anti's gravitate to this spot because it's CRITICAL of twilight. I personally do not like the reasoning that 'Twilight sucks, cos it just does' because that sounds like a 5 سال old wrote it and has no reasoning behind it. I think there should be some مزید شائقین on here to keep the arguments interesting. :)

I also think that if آپ balance out the number of twihards on the Twilight spot compared to the number of anti's then it evens out.

Sorry if it seems that way. It's just that if antis don't find a way to vent, we might just snap! I mean, anti کلب aren't allowed, this club welcomes antis, and it hasn't been deleted yet, so...