Enemies and haters can be annoying and their تبصرے and insults can upset you. Learn how to deal with it...

1)If آپ don’t know why they hate you, ask them calmly and nicely. If they are nasty to آپ یا start swearing یا being violent, walk away and don’t bother trying to talk to them again until they have calmed down یا until they talk to آپ nicely. Some people can be دیا سیکنڈ chances to realize that آپ aren’t really a bad person and they have nothing to hate آپ for. But some people just won’t like آپ in life, so don’t waste your time fretting about why they don’t like you.

2)Ignore whatever they say. They are probably only insulting آپ because they are jealous. No matter what they say, it can’t offend آپ unless آپ let it. Just remember when they say something nasty to you, they want آپ to react. So pretend آپ didn’t hear it. Don’t acknowledge them یا give them any attention for it. If they continue insulting آپ یا bothering آپ in any way, walk away from them. Don’t look at them یا talk to them; just walk away. After a few times of آپ doing this they will probably get bored and stop picking on.

3)Surround yourself with دوستوں and people who like آپ for who آپ are. These people will make آپ feel مزید confident about yourself and آپ should realize that it doesn’t matter what haters say as long as آپ have good دوستوں سے طرف کی your side.

4)If they start being violent towards آپ یا continue offending آپ یا upsetting you, and ignoring them is not helping, tell them that their behavior is upsetting آپ and tell them that they have no reason for it. If they still carry on, آپ will have to learn to stop being upset سے طرف کی their تبصرے and realize that whatever they say is probably a lie.

5)If آپ know why they hate you, be mature and apologize if it was your fault. Holding grudges against people and not apologizing can sometimes seem like the reasonable thing to do but in the end, if its your fault, only آپ can fix it. Apologize to them seriously, and if they don’t accept it, there isn’t much مزید آپ can do than ignore them.

6)Show them respect as آپ دکھائیں to your friends; when they need help, help them. This will دکھائیں them that آپ are friendly and kind. Give them compliments and try not to sound hurtful, don't judge them if they say bad stuff back. And if these things don't work out, just tell your دوستوں and they can cool آپ down, and take a deep breath and try again. Never be offended, but if did, try not to loose control. "Control" is important, when things gets messed up, control yourself, یا make excuses to get out of the situation instead of loosing your mind trying to settle things.

7)If آپ follow the last piece of advice with people who are purportedly hostile, آپ are a fool and only contribute to them taking advantage of your kindness. Do not give enemies one ounce of your energy. سے طرف کی helping anyone, especially enemies, آپ may be giving something to someone who doesn't "deserve" it karmically. Your best bet is to ground out their energy (return it to Earth/heaven/God/etc) and forget about it. Don't worry- they will get exactly what they deserve that way. ;-)

8)Never try to hurt them when they are being mean.
When آپ talk to them, think before آپ talk.
They are only ememies and only do that to gain attention.
Never be scared of them.
Don't back talk to them.