Has your boyfriend been unfaithful to you? Infidelity can leave couples feeling insecure, hurt and can make it difficult to trust each other again. Sometimes, the damage can carry into a new relationship if a break up occurs. Handle a cheating boyfriend سے طرف کی following these steps.:
1-Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.
2-Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that آپ can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.
3-Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What advice would آپ give to your friend?.
4-Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do آپ believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?.
5-Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how آپ feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.
6-If آپ feel آپ need to know why he cheated on آپ to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean آپ condone, agree with یا accept his behavior.
7-Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology یا promises never to cheat on آپ again. Be realistic. Do آپ honestly believe this was a one-time event, یا do your instincts tell آپ that he'll probably cheat on آپ again in the future?.
8-Ask yourself if آپ would be better off with him یا without him. Can آپ continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?
9-Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.
10-Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether آپ stay with him یا not, forgive him for his actions so آپ can heal and move on with your life.
1-Acknowledge and accept your feelings of anger, sadness and disappointment over the betrayal.
2-Don't blame yourself for his actions. Remember that آپ can't be responsible for anyone's behavior other than your own.
3-Try to set aside your emotions and look at the situation from an outsider's point of view. What advice would آپ give to your friend?.
4-Evaluate whether his behavior has permanently destroyed your trust in him and in your relationship. Do آپ believe he won't repeat his actions in the future?.
5-Confront your boyfriend and tell him exactly how آپ feel about his actions. Let him know that cheating is not acceptable behavior in your relationship.
6-If آپ feel آپ need to know why he cheated on آپ to obtain closure for yourself, listen to his explanations about his behavior. Remember that listening does not mean آپ condone, agree with یا accept his behavior.
7-Don't allow him to manipulate your feelings with sweet words of apology یا promises never to cheat on آپ again. Be realistic. Do آپ honestly believe this was a one-time event, یا do your instincts tell آپ that he'll probably cheat on آپ again in the future?.
8-Ask yourself if آپ would be better off with him یا without him. Can آپ continue to enjoy the relationship, knowing about the betrayal?
9-Find a constructive outlet for your emotions of disappointment and anger.
10-Give yourself time to grieve over the betrayal. Whether آپ stay with him یا not, forgive him for his actions so آپ can heal and move on with your life.